2007-03-14 12:50:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well, if you're gonna have it, she'll find out eventually so you might as well tell her now. If you want an abortion, find a place called "Planned Parenthood" (I'm sure you can find a local one if you Google it) and talk to them about getting an abortion without your parents knowledge. Do it quickly though, abortions are only legal in the first few months.
2007-03-14 12:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by The Lobe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not parents love you no matter what you do, or how much trouble you get into!!! You need to tell her, she will have 9 months to get over it!!! What grandma can resist the cute innocent face of her grand baby... not many can.. so at the worst if she does send you away to live with your Aunt, I bet she shows up at the hospital, and will forget all the bulls**t. You have no idea how scared I was to tell my mom!! She called me stupid, she said I would never finish school, she hated my B/F for the longest time but you know what.. she was the first one that bought me baby stuff, and she was secretly tickled by it I could see it in her eyes!! So tell your mom you may be surprised..
2007-03-14 19:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Fashion Diva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say get a job make enough money and get ur own place..or move in with a friend, if ur old enough...but u should let someone know so that yoiu can schedule appointments to make sure ur baby and u are both well, ur going to have to end up telling ur mom. How old are u? Do you have any friends to stay with? I mean it's terrible ur mom would send u away... if u need to finish school[which there are schools that take pregnant women in], ur mom shuldn't disown u. U will have to tell her I'm sry, but be adult about it..giveher a deal.....tell her you'll work and be responsible.
2007-03-14 19:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would she send you to Italy? Where do you live? I'm sure your mom will get upset, but she's a mom and will calm down after awhile...I mean you are her daughter and she's going to be a grandma soon. The best thing to do is show her your responsible enough to talk to her instead of hiding things from her.
2007-03-17 12:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Italys a great place tell your mom and go live in italy !
2007-03-14 20:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by thewifey2086 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is going to find out eventually. Sit her down and talk to her face to face as an adult and tell her you made a mistake and you need her help dealing with the consequences and you really want her input and her help and you want to stay and learn from her not your aunt. Tell her that you hoped your honesty toward her would help her see that you respect her more than your actions leading to your predicament have shown. Good luck, if you need help adopting out look to LDS Family Services it s no cost to you and all of the families are stable and usually very wealthy. Please let me know if you need help, I have helped others before and can help find reliable agencies. sparrowhawk1981@yahoo.com
2007-03-14 20:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Army_Wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should visit a doctor and discuss the
options with him or her.
At least in the US, your doctor cannot tell
your parents about your condition without
your consent, so it is safe to talk to him.
Your doctor will be able to confirm your
pregnancy and give you all sorts of reading
material.
You don't have to go this alone.
2007-03-14 19:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. If you are young then you are likely to qualify for financial aid. You can file a suit against the father of the child if he tries to escape responsibility. Best of luck
2007-03-14 21:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lowmetal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely tell your mom, calmly. it wont be good for the baby if you are stressing out. i was 15 when i got pregnant and it was hard to tell my mom too, but there was a huge weight lifted off my shoulders when i did.
2007-03-14 19:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by jane 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. If she gets that pissed, jus think of it this way...it'd be cool to live in Italy. People tend to live longer!
2007-03-14 19:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋