Ok. I'm really depressed. I just asked two guys out and they both said no. Am I really that ugly? www.myspace.com/eastsidechic58 I mean like I'm just really upset right now. But the guys were white. And I'm not fully white. Is that why? Please be honest too.
2007-03-14 12:38:19 · 16 answers · asked by ☮♥$ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2007-03-14 12:43:30 · update #1
Umm I have no idea...if you put a heading like that on your site you will be considered ugly...not saying that you are...inside will show up on the outside!
2007-03-14 12:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will try to be very honest. Don't worry:)
Since in my country the color do not make a diference, than, I'll have to tell you that this opinion of yours take out of your mind. It is unrelevant with regards to the problem you have.
It is the attitude perhaps you have towards the guys, you know. I would propose you to be more calm when asking guys to date. To tel you the truth, don't ever call the guys for date, but, make them call you;)
I know this believe me, because I am guy too and I am an 29 year man. I am also a father of a little daughter, which soon I know that I need to give similar advices, you know. So, remember, don't ask guys to go out. However, when you must and you wand badly to call them on date and that's it, than be more creative, and make them feel like you're calling them as a best friends, or something like that, you know?!.
I hope I have helped you in some way?! I know also that my English is not so good because I am from Kosovo and my native language is Albanian, but, still I know that I have given my best effort to help you:)
therefore, take care now and remember that you have so much to pass and, when you'll look at all those silly stuff behind you you will laugh with an sweet smile in your face, thinking inside of your mind ''huh, look at what silly things I was in depression, and what's more, it was not even a depression because i did not know what the depression was"...and so on and soo on....
So don't worry sweet girl, it will be everything OK. Just make everyone come to you and everything will be OK;)
All the best
Dimche
2007-03-14 13:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Dimche 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Babe. I an a white girl, and have always thought that people with darker skin look so pretty. I am now 19 and have only just got a proper boyfriend, because I thought liked you did for a long while. And then I thought- hang on- what about fate, I don't want to be in just any old boy friend, I really want someone special. If its meant to happen it will so sod the rest! Start to love yourself for who you are not what the world wants you to be. When you can love and respect yourself, then someday you will find someone right, and remember you have a lifetime, so no hurry to get a bf! Take care. xxx
2007-03-14 12:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK, I have gone through the same thing a lot to. Just stay positive. I like a lot of guys and some have said no to me. I have gotten over it.
My friend and I joke about when not having a bf we call each other Miss Independent!
I have had one before and it is such a pain sometimes.
Also, ask yourself, do you really think you like this person? Why like someone when you might only go out with them for 3 days?
Try to look at other qualities, are they really what you want? Looks aren't everything you know. Look at sense of humor and things you might look for in a husband.
P.S.
If I sound like a psychologist, I'm not.
2007-03-14 12:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Life Is Beautiful at Sixx: A.M. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not by any means base your self worth or appearance on the opinon of two adolescent boys. You have so much time to meet the right person. It has been my experience that you cant rush something that is not ready to happen yet. Just sit back and enjoy this time you can spend with your friends and on yourself, you are only young once, do something for yourself! Good luck...and dont be depressed!
2007-03-14 14:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Soon to be Mrs. Welsh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good news is this: you're SO young and there are plenty of fish in the sea! Bad news: men don't get easier to understand as you get older.
I would not ask anyone out at all, concentrate on school and your future, that wil bring you a HELL of a lot more happiness and confidence than ANY (and I do mean any) boy will.
2007-03-14 12:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Waiting and Wishing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey you're the girl who asked the "am i fake" question.
wow you have issues don't you? well i'll help with that. Well you're not ugly, but not really cute. These guys just don't like you. Just keep going through those teen years and you'll turn out all right.
Give me an email, i'll give you more advice.
2007-03-14 12:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Russly F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not ugly! Maybe you're just not their type, or they are dating someone else, etc... There could be many reasons... Dont focus so much on your looks! And who cares if you're not "fully white" ... I doubt that's the reason, and if it was... Then why would you care what they think!?! Who needs them!
2007-03-14 17:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by raven975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all i personally wouldnt ask a guy out. some guys not all get turned off when a girl asks them out. I dont think is because your race! Try turning them on flirting, teasing, and and leading them on, seduce them, and you'll see they will come around! i guarantee they will!
2007-03-14 12:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO WHAT IF they dont want to go out with you maybe they like someone else. It DOES NOT mean that there is anything wrong with you. You dont have to have a boyfriend to be happy just be happy being you and hanging out with your friends.
2007-03-14 12:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Simple Life? HAHA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋