there is this guy that i really like. he is in my guy class and in 2 other classes.in one class he sits behind me;and in another he sitsd next to me. my friends have asked him if he wanted to go out with me but he only wants to be friends !!!!!!! i also found out that he likes my bff !!!!!!!!!! what do i do? thks. for the help
2007-03-14 12:21:26 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs. Edward Cullen...Twilight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we actully just got over a fight; and i really like him!!!!!!! still even though he was a jerk to me !!!! he addmitted it too !!!!! he said im srry iv been reallly mean latley. i said that he was just saying that to get a brownie ; but he said he was really srry for being a jerk
2007-03-14 12:29:33 · update #1
Sorry, Dear, there's nothing you can do. You can't make someone like you. And if he likes your best friend then she would get mad at you if she likes him back.
I know its not what you want, but you need to find another boy.
2007-03-14 12:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your shoes before.
The guy I liked, was totally into my bff. I was filled with jealousy but i couldnt do anything cuz i didnt tell her i liked him. He wasnt in my class. He was part of this extra-curricular thing and well, i liked him becasue he was kind.
When I heard the news that he liked her instead of me, well, the green bug bit me, and so i kept on ignoring her and being a *****. Then I realized that it wasnt her fault that he liked her. So i let it go. I must say that it was pretty difficult to do that. But here are some of the things I did to help me forget:
1) Find another crush(trust me, there are a lot of other fish in the sea>
2) Keep yourself busy(my suggestions: stuff you enjoy, extra-credit, things that you have never tried before but want to, cook a dish, new thing and experiment(hehehe, i LOVE cooking) etc... HOWEVER, dont over-load. If you had enough, then stop)
3) Get all your feelings out in anyway. May be by singing, writing it down, dancing, talking.....whatever!
4) Hang with your friends and enjoy.
5) Talk about it(only if you want to. But this can really help). Talk to your friends, your bff anyone that you feel compfortable around!
That's all I have. Hope this can help!
2007-03-14 19:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to accept the fact that he likes your bff and not you and move on. Besides there are plenty of other guys out there. You're bound to get one,lol
2007-03-14 19:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by the_prefects 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so basically you like this guy buh he wants to be just friends? then it turns out he likes ur bestfriend? wow thats a bummer. i think you shud have gotten to know him before you made your move then maybe u would have known that he liked ur bff!! buh since you didnt become his friend first then i think that you should tell your friend that he likes her. tell her that it would be wierd, uncomfortable and it would hurt ur feelings if they hooked up. if she is a good friend than she wont hook up with him. if not than you know she wasnt really ur bff! nd as for the guy f him lol. u could probably find someone better who likes you and would cherish you.
2007-03-14 19:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by shark23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go and u know what there are alot more people than one in this world and u know what u tried and so just go out there and find somebody else im sure u will good luck
2007-03-14 19:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with him. If he likes someone else, then just move on.I am sure there is some one else so much better for you!!!
2007-03-14 19:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Cheers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a Uh-Oh spaghettio problem... You better try to win his heart, I'll give you a good advice don't give up..
2007-03-14 19:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, let him know you like him. Ask him to have ice cream.
2007-03-14 19:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋