i just had a baby 9 wks and my bnoyfriend wants to get me pregnant again when is the best to get pregnant if i had a baby 9 wks ago
2007-03-14 12:02:55 · 27 answers · asked by keykey253 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Try getting married before you pop out any more rugrats...just a thought
2007-03-14 12:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by muddbutts 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Are you out of your freaking mind? I sure wish my daughter was on here to tell you what she would think of it. Her girls are 11 months to the day apart. When she came home from the Dr and told her hubby, who wanted the second child so bad, that she was pregnant he told her he changed his mind and wanted a divorce instead. She thought about an abortion and knew that child would be a sweet as the one she just had so she went ahead and had her but it has not been a picnic, I can assure you. We love both girls but it was really too much. You know as well as I do that you will not be with this guy forever. The divorce rate is too high to even kid yourself about that. If he wants another, let him have it. It's your body that will never go back into shape from having them too close together. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-03-14 19:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it takes about 2yrs for your body to totally recover from pregnancy & child birth. However, I would suggest you marry your boyfriend to make sure the child has a stable father. I know single moms who are doing great, but it really does take two to raise a family. My husband makes good money, but it's still a struggle sometimes. Don't be in a rush, especially if you're young.
2007-03-14 19:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by mom-of-4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is your decision, or one to make together. Don't get pregnant just because your boyfriend wants you too, especially when your baby is only 9 weeks old! You should get used to being a mother to the child you have now. Wait a few months, at least.
2007-03-14 19:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by stuckinamoment 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First , respect yourself and your child .
Tell him to go have one himself .
He is being selfish , you need time to bond with your new baby.
There is something strange about a man that wants to do this and your not married , so if he wants to leave you with both children he can .
Tell him you want a commitment from him .
I take it , he isn't the baby's father , so he wants a hold on you .
If you do this your both are being irresponsible and your not being fair to your child . You need to grow up and become a responsible parent , put your baby first .
2007-03-14 19:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 9 weeks old, your baby is extremely portable and easy to care for. Eat, sleep, poop, play peek a boo.....go to the mall and watch all the toddlers running their mothers ragged. Ask them. See them pulling out their hair?? You are not immune to that. Your baby will not stay placid forever. And if your man is not willing to make a commitment, he will not stick around forever either.
2007-03-14 19:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by curlyk2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty personal decision. And he can want you to get pregnant all you want, but it's your body. Are you ready for another baby? Can you handle two? Can your body handle being pregnant again so soon? These are questions you need to ask YOURSELF.
And as far as the babies being born out of wedlock, so was my daughter, and so far, she hasn't turned into some satanic spawn. If you guys are happy, don't worry about it.
2007-03-14 19:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Ang 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait a while and give your body a rest and time to get over the last one. Theres always plenty of time. You do have the rest of your life you know. This new baby is going to take all your energy for now. Take it slow.
2007-03-14 19:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by free spirit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself does your boyfriend help with your nine week old you will be looking at two in diapers you work load as a mother will get a lot harder i have two 18 months apart and nephews 13 months apart if you can wait at least a year do that enjoy the one you have now
2007-03-14 19:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by superwomen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, you guys live in a trailer and are collecting welfare. Why are you making babies when you're not even married!
You should stop making babies, go back to school and work on your grammar and try to make something of yourself so you can get a decent job and provide a decent environment for the child (or children) you already have.
2007-03-14 19:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
If your boyfriend wants a baby, he should have one himself. But, seriously, it takes a womans body about a year to recover from pregnancy, so you should wait AT LEAST that long.
2007-03-14 19:34:37 · answer #11 · answered by collegechickbre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋