How do you know if you're gay, bi or lesbian?I know very well that I love women! I am very much attracted to them. But I'm not every going to lie I love penis. I am not attracted to guys. The way I see it if I can't see myself kissing you then I'm not attracted to you. And I can't see myself kissing guys, but I none the less enjoy sex with guys. I'm stuck can someone help me?
2007-03-14 11:55:29 · 2 answers · asked by Leelee 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you enjoy sex with men and women, you're bisexual, plain and simple. I know it's confusing that you don't like to kiss them, but sexual orientation isn't about kissing, it's about sex.
Now, you say you're not attracted to guys, but that you enjoy sex with guys. To me, that's a huge oxymoron- impossible. If you feel no attraction whatsoever, I find it difficult to believe you can have enjoyable sex with them. So I think the attraction is there, somehow- probably just far less than you have an attraction towards women.
So I'm going to say bisexual. But then again, I could be wrong. You'll have to look inside yourself and try to figure out where you stand sexually.
Hope that helps, and good luck.
2007-03-14 19:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would your desire for penile penetration be sated by a woman wearing a strap-on?
Or does it HAVE to be the "real thing"?
Have fun finding out :)
2007-03-14 19:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋