My bf (John)and I have been together 3 yrs but 5 months ago we broke up because he was not sure if he wanted to get married. I was angry and had a fling with an ex. bf during this time.The break up with(John) lasted 3 months and then we got back together.All has been going well for the last 2 months and the wedding is next month.I went to the doctors because i had bad cramps only to find out i am 4 months pregnant.My doctor beileves the child is my ex. bf's child is there any chance it could be my bf's?
2007-03-14 11:51:07 · 13 answers · asked by Amelia R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes my doctor did an ultra sound
2007-03-14 12:13:52 · update #1
Umm..you broke up 5 months ago which is November? You didn't get back together until the end of January beginning of February? You're 4 months pregnant. 4 months ago was December. If you weren't together and weren't having sex, then there's is no possible way it could be your current boyfriend's. It has to be the ex's. Do the math!
2007-03-14 11:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Aaliyah & Natalie's Mommy 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you're 4 months pregnant and have only been back together and having sex with your bf for the last 2 months then the child is probably not your bfs. There is a miniscule chance that the doctor could be wrong but I dont think he'd miscalculate the date of conception by a whole 2 months. Tell your bf before you marry him, he has a right to know if the baby is not his. Get a paternity test when the baby is born to be sure. Explain to your bf that this happened when you were broken up and hope he understands. No matter what happens, put your baby above all else and do whatever you believe is best for him/her. You may not have planned to get pregnant but now you have a responsibility to raise and love your child. I really hope your bf understands and that everything works out for the best. Good luck.
2007-03-14 12:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When was your last period?? Go by that and figure out who you were with that month...but if you are 4 months pregnant and you guys just got back together 2 months ago then I would guess it would be the ex boyfriends baby.....Does your current boyfriend know that you are pregnant??? If you are really unsure of who the father is you can have a DNA test done when the baby is born... hope it all works out for you....Good Luck!
2007-03-14 12:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa ♥'s Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your doctore done an ulrasound yet? When i was 10 weeks a doctor messured my tummy at 14 weeks just because he pressed on my belly and i had a large uterus. The ultrasound prooved that i wasnt 14 weeks but infact the 10. There is a big difference between being 8 weeks and 16 weeks so an ultrasound would help you greatly determine the father. Good luck to you
2007-03-14 11:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by louie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
defo seems to be ur ex tell ur bf the truth thats all u can do dont just say nothing cos that is so unfair and ur ex will probably know full well the baby is his
u didnt say if ur bf knows about ur ex or not but u should tell him if he dosent then get a paternity test when baby is born
dont be too hard on yourself u made a mistake but u have to live with the consequences now
good luck
2007-03-14 11:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but the dr. is usually pretty acurate, at least within a couple of weeks. You should defin. tell you b-friend that it could possible not be his before you get married though. If you dont you might end up on the Maury show.
2007-03-14 11:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by LRCMT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0h boy!! Um.. well if ur 4 months pregnant and were with the OTHER boy 4 months ago..chances are it's his! ...but u still have a slight chance of ur bf...does ut bf know about ur fling? He should!!You both should be honest if yau'll are gettin married
2007-03-14 12:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. What a mess you have gotten yourself into. Get DNA tests after the baby is born. This sounds like an episode from Maury.
2007-03-14 11:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont even worry yourself about who the daddy only that matters is the baby right know. just wait until the baby is born and get a dna test thats you real solution. things happen in relationship when you are broken up.
2007-03-14 12:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when was your last period? That is what you have to go by. I too think that it is the ex boyfriend not your current boyfriend. Hope everything goes well good luck and congrats.
2007-03-14 11:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by hoslnm01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋