My friend had a crush on this guy but it turns out he's married with two kids. So of course her crush was over after that. But she said he was a really nice person and they stayed friends. They sometimes hang out. He asks her all types of questions that sound like he's trying to get to know her on a more personal level, not a friendship level. Is she wrong for being friends with a married man. Is he just trying to butter her up and will attempt to get with her?? Or is it possible to be just friends?
2007-03-14 11:50:08 · 10 answers · asked by HoneyBrisk 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i belive you can,, but you can never step, over the line,,,now he could be trying to get to know her better,, but to be honest, as what i have read here, god only know,,,,, me my self i got to get to know a person, before i realy talk a lot, ,, for i like to see the ground rules,,, an if i feel, it going past a friendship level,, i back off fast
2007-03-14 11:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can be friends with a man, set the ground rules right away, I have a friend who is married and we are good friends, we can talk about anything, I ask for advice , we go to lunch once in a while but not once have we ever gone over the line with each other. We are both attractive people and we set the ground rules from day one. If your friend is thinking this guys wants more than a friendship, she is probably right and to go with her gut instinct is a smart thing to do and get out of it.
2007-03-14 18:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by emtleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on that certain situation. And how long they've known eachother. I'm friends with tons of guys. But of course that is because I hate being around too many horomonal people. Which of course leaves women mostly out of the picture. But I do have an ex I stayed friends with. He wanted to have an affair. I did the right thing and said no. But like I said, it all depends on that situation. He could be trying to get her in the sack. I think that she should get to know the wife too. Get a boyfriend and go on double dates. To make sure he knows she won't go there. She's too good to do a thing like that.
2007-03-14 18:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless they are mutually NOT attracted to one another, then no, men and women cannot be friends.
There will always be some level of flirting and inuendo until one person takes it too far and makes everything weird. Or they both give in and become sexual.
If men have too many female friends, then they become "one of the girls," and emasculated. You know the kind, the guy who knows tons of girls, is the "nice guy," listens to their problems, and never dates any of them: because at the end of the day she always loses respect for him and sleeps with someone else.
2007-03-16 23:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes men and women can really be friends even if they are married to other people.
2007-03-14 19:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course guys and womens can be friends. why would it be a bad thing. though in your situation I believe that the guy is just having his life of how it was before
2007-03-14 19:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends never works
something always happens with the guy/girl
2007-03-14 19:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by *L-I-V-E* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have GOOD friends that are men, and i dont want anything more than friendship
2007-03-14 18:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent the movie "when harry met sally".
2007-03-14 18:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they can......... my best friend is actualy a guy
he is married and has kids
2007-03-14 18:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by ciara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋