i just came back from the park where i had my first kiss today. i feel really weird. i was going out with him for only 3 days. but i wanted to kiss him and he did too be he didnt force me 2. and us and our friends were playing truth and dare which obviously they wanted me to kiss him. but i didnt do it because they wanted me 2. i never give into peer pressure. but they wanted me to makeout with him but that i REFUSED to do. but now i feel like a wh.ore for some reason. my best friend who was there says i wasnt. and i also didnt do ANYTHING else. that would just be wayy too far. i would like some feedback on this thanks..
2007-03-14 11:45:45 · 17 answers · asked by lauren s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm sorry you feel bad about it, you don't have to. It's actually very sweet and something you'll never forget.
Just remember, just because you've kissed him doesn't mean you have to do it again, or anything else. Talk to your Mom about it, she'll reassure you and I bet she'll be happy for you.
2007-03-14 11:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes doing what you feel is not the best thing. I think you're still a little young for this, especially if you are feeling weird about it. It should be done in a more dedicated (and possibly serious) relationship-not just to get it over with. Also, I feel that you did give into peer pressure if others were witnessing. Truth or Dare is not a good way to get your first kiss-I hope this guy was worth it! You don't have to do anything everybody else does and you don't have to keep up with anyone else to be popular or whatever. You should think about the reason why you kissed him and see if you still think it was the right thing to do.
What you do to "impress" people in middle and high school sooooooooo will not matter when you graduate-trust me!!!
2007-03-14 18:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by ANT-a-gonistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I remember my first kiss...I had just turned 13 and it was with a 16year old boy!!! We had been going out for about a week and I was so nervous I didnt kiss back...I did end up making out with him about a week after my second kiss when I accually kissed back!!!
Trust me you are not a wh.ore as long as it was what you and only you[and him]wanted to do!!! But take your time and dont go too much further...and no matter what my advice is to stay away from the word "love" at the age of thirteen...I really got hurt
***BANANAS***
2007-03-14 20:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Bananas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you feel guilty or ashamed because it subconciously seems like you were forced into kissing him, rather than doing it entirely of your own free will?
If you're not totally ready, just don't kiss him again for a while. Explain how you feel so he's not left in the dark.
You sound sensible and it's good that you set boundaries on how far you want to go. Take it slow and the best of luck to you.
2007-03-14 18:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girly, you're lucky. First kisses are hard to get (granted i got one at 5, 7, and 8 from 3 diff girls. Ever since I can't get a kiss for my life.) Don't worry, the only reason you feel like a whore is because you played truth or dare. that makes everyone feel like a whore.
Ask the guy out on a date.
2007-03-14 18:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Russly F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little to young to kiss but don't feel bad. At least you didn't give in to the peer pressure. Do what YOU want, not what others want.
2007-03-14 18:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loooooooool u r really funny. anyways u r not a whore or anything. everyone get a first kiss. and its a good thing u have not done anything else. u only 13. u shouldn't feel bad 2 because he like's u so do u .
2007-03-14 18:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by faduma a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. It was just a kiss! You did what you wanted to do. By refusing to makeout with him at your friend's request, you showed that you care about yourself and respect your feelings. Keep it up!
2007-03-14 18:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by iceemama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip. I've slept with woman that I couldnt even remember their names the next morning. Kissing a guy after you have been dating for just a couple days.
2007-03-14 19:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in this day and age, kissing at 13 is normal. shoo i don't even have a boyfriend and im 13.
2007-03-14 18:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋