My fiancee and I just broke up 3 months ago and within three days later she has a new boyfriend. Now that they have been dating for only three months she says that she sees her future with him. Some people say she is just saying that so I could get more jealous and upset. Should I let this bother me or just play it off like I don't care when I really do. 6 years vs 3 months. Who would you pick?
2007-03-14 11:43:10 · 15 answers · asked by Basic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She obviously WANTS to get married...badly! We both know she's making a mistake, but it is HER business. All you can do, is wish her well.
2007-03-14 11:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So the best possible scenario is that she is pretending to want to marry a guy she started dating 3-days after calling off your engagement in an elaborate plan to make you jealous? And the worst case is that she is marrying a guy that she's only been dating for 3 months? Why would you want to marry a person like that to begin with under either circumstance? I would cut this girl loose and consider it a blessing that you found out what kind of a woman she is before marrying her and bringing a child into this world with her.
2007-03-14 18:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
... doesn't matter who I would pick, it matters who she picked. She picked him. It hurts like hell, but it's true. You can't help but feel the way you do, but she doesn't ever need to know. Do I think she's making a mistake? Yeah, three months is no where near enough time to know. However, I have a sneaking suspicion, due to how quickly she popped up with someone new, that she's "known" him longer.
Sorry, my friend, but it sounds like you're better off without her.
2007-03-14 19:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over it she sounds like a divorce waiting to happen and consider yourself lucky you didn't actually marry her.
Start dating someone else and lose all contact with her hopefully you will run into her months later with a cute babe on your arm but just be cool and smile and walk away......
2007-03-14 19:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys broke up (who initiated it?) and she met this new guy. She probably feels she has to make the most of this new guy to try and make herself feel better. You know this is a rebound, right?
There is not a chance in the world its going to last. Has she told you directly that she's seeing him? Have you guys had contact?
2007-03-14 18:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, why are you even still talking to her if it's upsetting you so? She's an ex for a reason, worry about your own life, not hers.
2007-03-14 18:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up man she a player .who need that kind/ she nothing but a booty call yes girlfriend no fiancee no count your blessing good luck if i was you i take them out for dinner and say thank then watch her face she wont know what to do good luck
2007-03-14 19:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys broke up for a reason i hope... then leave it in the past... the future awaits!!! she's probably feeling stupid or she's been with this other guy when she was with your a s s. so stop whining and get on with your business... there's so many women... and not enough me. LoL.
2007-03-14 18:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunally there are some girls out there who don't know what they want....go on with your life i know it will be hard especially if you really loved her...but as you can see she didn't....don't go back to her...if she did this just a few days after you broke up what would have happened if you had gotten married to her...she would have been cheathing on you...go on and find a girl there are many out there:)
2007-03-14 18:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by olive oil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell me you are willing to take her back, dude, you are not a basket of groceries, that she can take or leave, are you?!!!! Cut the cord, move on!! you are obsessing, this is not healthy.
2007-03-14 19:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋