I don't like any of these guys but they really like me. I don't want to mean to them, when i say that i don't like them? Can anybody tell me a few good ways of telling them that i don't feel the same way without using the phrase " I just don't feel the same way about you, or were just friends."
2007-03-14 11:39:38 · 12 answers · asked by *~*Volleyball player*~* 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just ignore them or look at them like they are dumb if they start trying to express feelings beyond that of friendship.
2007-03-14 11:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, go you!! Secondly, the worst thing you can do is lead them on, so its good you want to be honest and tell them how you really feel. Just tell them, you're so busy with...blah, blah, blah, and that you just simply don't have time for a relationship right now. And that you'd really appreciate them giving you your space, and that when you're ready you'll let them know, until then, just let me do my own thing. That way they don't get the same boring speech, im just not that into you, or can't we just be friends? If that doesn't work just text them and say look not interested sorry, i tried to be nice and you just weren't getting it. Good luck!
2007-03-14 11:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsearay85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly if he says that he loves you and you rather think of that that's actual... then he will experience that way continuously! teenage love isn't over rated in any respect! i certainly am in love and going into grade 9. as for the cope with no longer seeing him till senior in intense college.... it doesnt must be that long... make plans tocontinual down and visit him once you are able to.... spend some days down there or maybe even weeks... and he can do a similar..... good success i wish this facilitates
2016-11-25 20:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are SO lucky. i wish that i had four guys that liked me.
but no I'm just a stupid freshman in high school!!!! hmmmmm. just go with what you think you should say. when my boyfriend broke up with me he said " i love the friendship that we had before we were going out and i don't want to ruin that friendship by arguing over something."
so say to them " hey i think it's great that you like me and all but i really don't want to ruin the great friendship that we already have and i think that if we were to break up, that would be very sad. i don't want to loose yo uas a friend." and you know what there are plenty of fish in the sea.and 4 of them have found you!!!!!just remember that sometimes the first isn't always the best keep looking and you will find them wherever they may be. :)(:
~*fh goalie*~
2007-03-14 11:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell them anything. Just talk to them the same way you would have to talk to your buddies, but maybe once in a while you could drop a hint that you don't like them.
2007-03-14 11:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by pjpilar 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them them how u feel and u don't want to be with them.
2007-03-14 11:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by brittany m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that you dont want to make that kind of commentment right now, but if you do that then you cant go out with someone else. i think you shoud just tell them you dont like them that way. its easiest and simple, its also not that mean.
2007-03-14 11:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by mmeghannn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them "I have someone that takes good care of me"
2007-03-14 11:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like ur into anther guy and dont dont spell it out 4 them. ur ignore them a little but dont b a *****.
2007-03-14 11:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them your not intersted in anything but friendship your patents don't allow you......
2007-03-14 11:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋