After school, I had asked my bff if she wanted to go get pizza with me. She said,"Sure." But didn't sound so confident about it. We were only there for about 30 min. and we usually ride our bikes around for like an hour and a half. Well then, she said,"I want to go." I asked why, and she said,"Just cuz, I want to go home." We rode back home, and then she rode ahead of me and ditched me. I felt like crying, because I didn't know what I did wrong!!!
When we were eating pizza, she said,"I think I might want to go to the school carnival with Sam instead of you." I was like,"Oh, thats fine, I'll fine someone else to go with." Then she said,"Yeah, Sam hates you." Well, Sam and I have been getting along just fine, but why is this happening to me? Why did Allana (the friend I was with) just get up and leave?
2007-03-14 11:24:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She was rude and not very considerate of your feelings. You did nothing wrong, she's the one with the problem and doesn't know how to handle it.
2007-03-14 11:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe Sam or someone else said something about u hating Allana. Just a thought or maybe she's jealous of how you and Sam are getting along fine.
2007-03-14 11:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by lollypop8493 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh im so sorry for you, I truly am! I feel for you, i would cry if that happened to me! Call her and ask her why Sam hate you, and that she is your best friend! You had such good times with her! And maybe, tell her that it really does hurt your feelings that she would just ditch you when you didnt do anything wrong.
2007-03-14 11:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and ask her if anything is bothering her. If she still refuses to talk, explain to her that you feel hurt by the way she's behaving. I'm not quite sure why she just ditched you like that. Perhaps there is a misunderstanding that you guys need to clear up on.
2007-03-14 11:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, but young people (and even older people too) can just be jerks. Seriously, if she is going to be that way and completely ditch you, and this other person, too, I would rethink being friends with them. They are acting too weird, and while easier said than done, you're better off without them.
2007-03-14 11:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by misteri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys have entered the pictures and become more important to her I am soo sorry. She will still be your friend just be patient. It all part of life.
2007-03-14 11:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋