I have been attracted to girls for a while now, bu tI was wondering if that ment I was a lesbian or if that ment I was Bisexual. If I am a lesbian does that mean I am bad?
2007-03-14 11:09:11 · 9 answers · asked by Rory a 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
my Mom, Preacher and Teacher Told me I was when I was 4 y/o
2007-03-14 11:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its steriotypical. You are who you are. Lesbian, bi, gay, str8, they are just names for people who are of a different orientation.
If your attracted to girls, let it flow. Don't put a label on it. If you like girls, go with the flow.
You cannot lable love.
If your a lesbian, welcome to the club. There are so many wonderful people out there who are willing to help you out and, you know, if you are or if your aren't, its just the way you want to be.
Its like kissing a guy, well thats how I thought at first. When I first came out, I thought, this is exactly like kissing a guy. The only difference was, when I kissed a guy, I felt so uncomfortable. Like I was kissing my brother or something. It felt so weird and gross.
So, the first woman I ever kissed, I thought...wow. This is incredable! Its like trying out a new and exotic food that just grabs your attention and you go and tell your friends about.
Its exciting, but just remember. BOYS and GIRLS are the SAME. Don't expect to go into a relationship thinking that a woman isn't gonna cheat on you either, because they do.
In any case, go with the flow. Take what you can, learn, ponder and think.
Its not bad hun, its growing, expanding your love to new horizons!!
Don't look at if from a discriminating point of view. Look at it as how you feel, and what YOU want. In the end, whatever you decide, you will know what you need and want and if it is the lesbian life style, then I hope you are happy.
If not, then, whoever you love, I hope will make you happy. Good luck with everything!
2007-03-14 18:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you have acted on your attraction, and enjoyed it, then would say you were bi. If you are also no longer attracted to men, then I would say lesbian. But if you are only attracted to women, have not acted on it, and still like men, I'd have to say that you are curious and will not know until you go somewhere with it and see for yourself. And no, it does not mean you are bad. I have been openly gay for over half of my life and 95% of the people I know would tell you that I am a good person. The only ones who would say it is bad are closed minded, ignorant, thoughtless, frightened little people who can't move beyond the arrogant selfishness of thier own tiny little universe.
2007-03-14 18:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you're feeling is perfectly normal, I think everyone I know who has questioned their sexual preferences felt the same way you feel now. Just go with the flow, if life leads you in one direction whether it be with a guy or a girl, don't freak out about what your label would be. I am currently with a female but keep an open mind about my sexuality. Doesn't mean i'm bi, doesn't mean i'm a lesbian. It just means i'm me and who makes me happy right now is the person i'm with.
2007-03-14 18:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by who d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay means being sexually attracted to a member of the same gender with no sexual attraction to the opposite gender. Bi-Sexual means being sexually attracted to both genders. Only you know the answer for sure. Furthermore, in either case, it does not make you a bad person.
2007-03-14 18:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by JD, MAPSY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt mean your bad. But if you are attracted to women and women only than you are a lesbian, otherwise you are indeed bisexual. And its fine. Dont rush anything, be comfortable with yourself and then make moves to define yourself.
2007-03-14 18:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Nae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR A LESBIAN unless you like guys too...and NO being a lesbian is NOT bad
2007-03-14 18:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like boys and girls, you are bi.
if you only like girls, or like girls a lot lot more, you could call yourself a lesbian.
Both are good things!
2007-03-14 19:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Pinkgemgem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not bad, stop worry about it !!!!!!!
2007-03-14 21:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋