Ok ladies when i'm with my lady friend having fun, the foreplay last as long as we want it too,,but when it come to intercourse I only last about 4or 5 min is that normal? If not what is?....
2007-03-14 11:08:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no.
2007-03-14 11:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it depend how old you are, for some 4-5 min. is normal for the reason that during foreplay, your whole body gets so excited and intense and what ever, because men's mind do connect to that part when the real intimacy comes, it will be easy to let go. This is natural to most men but if you learn how to control it.....you can have more fun,.done it,been there love!
2007-03-14 18:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's normal?
Honestly...........besides a very few times, I've never been with any man who could last more than 5-15 min. My present SO is significantly different. The foreplay lasts for up to 2 hours at times, and once we get down to it......he can last for anything from 10 min up to 45 min. He has turned concentration into an art, and can last as long as I want him to, or longer. If I'm satisfied after 10 minuets, he will speed things up and let himself go, but he generally leaves these things up to me.
Call me a b****, Yes I'm just a very lucky girl! And yea I know it!
2007-03-14 18:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by TJ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds normal... but, if you want to make it longer, practice coitus interruptus-- pulling it out before you climax, but continue the foreplay to maintain the intensity with her. Do this severel times and 2 things will happen: a) it will drive her crazy, and; 2) your intercourse may last 2-4 times longer.
2007-03-14 18:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This can be very normal at times. you may want to get some viagara or hardening creme from a local adult bookstore though to help you maintain erections longer and to have more stamina. You can also learn over time how to control your urge to finish so fast too. This takes time and learning. Good luck to you.
2007-03-14 19:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why it is but foreplay always makes me want to scream but we have kids and nosey neighbors. As long as he makes me feel oh so good yes and I make him happy then I dont care how long it is I just get on and ride for however long I can or until he cant handle me anymore!! You cant help it when your excited so I guess when its time to be done then its time. I dont know me and my husband enjoy it.
2007-03-14 18:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A ex of mine and i would go at for hours and that was 7 days a week. try putting some of that numbing lotions on it and you will last longer a friend of mine uses one called vicks i think.
2007-03-14 18:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse it's normal, It's not meant to hold the load forever, and if the two of you have been stimulating it for awhile ofcourse its not gonna last a long time, Especially if she realy turns you on!
2007-03-14 18:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Elisa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's hella weak dude. You gotta get your time to an hour or two. Pace yourself and try lots of different positions. This should work
2007-03-14 18:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally normal. There are plenty of guys who claim they last an hour. I dont know but I have never been with one. I am quite satisfied with my guy and he last as long as you do. Been married eighteen years.
2007-03-14 18:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by janine b 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not normal. You have premature ejaculation and need to see a doctor. There are many good medications on the market to help with this problem! Good Luck!
2007-03-14 18:32:04 · answer #11 · answered by lee911 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋