I'm a divorced Christian, Will I ever get remarried?

Question

I have a few goals in life, A good relationship with the Lord is #1..If I remarry will this turn god off?

Answer 1

NO! It will not. He wants you to be happy. He never turns his back on his children. He loves you!!

Answer 2

Remember that the word of God says, that a man that finds a wife, finds a good thing , and has favor with the lord. So learning how to wait on God is the problem most people have, however! making the right choice according to the purpose for your life, is the next issue, just because you are a christian, ask in prayer, who is the christian mate for you?
based on what you believe.

Answer 3

Absolutely not, as long as God remains number 1. If it is in his will for you to get married it will happen. Divorce in itself is acceptable in the bible under a few conditions. If your husband commits adultery against you, or abuses you then you had that right to get a divorce, and getting remarried wouldn't turn God off. However, if you got a divorce simply because there were financial problems, or you're "feelings about him changed" Then it is frowned upon by God, and remarriage would turn him off.

Answer 4

Hi you have a few misunderstandings about God - yes He is a judgemental God when it comes to sin, He can't take being near it. That is why He sent Jesus to die on the cross so that when we muck up we can come to Him and ask for forgiveness, that then restores the relationship. Unlike some catholics believe that isn't the end of the story, continually repeating the sin and palming it off with Him-our repeated sins always hurt him,as they hurt us also.We need to be close enough relationship with Him that we repent- which means turning from our sin, and not repeating it. That is why He set down laws, not to bind us up or in, but to stop us getting more hurt and hurting others in the process. If you ask forgiveness about the beak down of relationship and your part in that, it is like you get a clean slate again, and a restored relationship with God. Continue in your everyday life to try and please, and live the way He would want you to and you wont likely end up with another broken relationship:)

Answer 5

No, you are a sinner . . just like the rest of us, but God loves us unconditionally. There are some scenarios that make divorce and re-marraige within the "law", but God isn't interested in this. He only wants a relationship with you.

In fact, why don't you pray raight now and just let God know you love Him. He loves it when you do that.

Answer 6

In the Bible, it says something about not divorcing and remarrying. For MEN. It says absolutly ZIP about women. So, you should be safe. And it's pretty obvious that God didn't want you to be with him, so you made a wrong choice there. I would have to say talk to your pastor and pray about it. God will solve your problem.
It's really good to hear someone say that they have God as their #1 priority. You have great character, and that will get you somewhere.
God Bless,
Ashley

Answer 7

Getting remarried is entirely up to you. He will let you know when's it's the right time. Remember, you don't have to be married to be somebody. You are somebody important in His eyes even if you're not married.

Answer 8

why do people teach you to fear God? the Lord is a LOVING God! and He does NOT judge you... feel good about yourself girl! get yourself together so that the man of your dreams will see you, want you, and be there for you! Find that "law of attraction" within yourself... love yourself first so that you will be loved...

Answer 9

no it wont. u will find someone else...