Should I be mad?

I think that is a natural male thing. That is all they think about. I don't like it when my man does it but there really isn't anything you can do about it. Just wait until you catch him in the act! You'll have nightmares!

2007-03-14 10:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

There is no "should" about a feeling. You either are mad or you aren't.

Now, what do you DO about it?

Personally, I hate it. I won't put up with it.
I was married for many years to a P*&N addict. I was disgusted. I felt cheapened and ugly. He was just an old child. He didn't care how I felt. I was supposed to GET OVER IT. He's been an ex now for 5 years. I'm free of his nasty life.
My fiance now, thinks it's stupid, and that it is cheating! He has no interest in seeing other naked people doing anything. I don't, either.
It might be hard to find some young man who isn't interested in this stuff. I was willing to be alone to keep it out of my home and away from my kids. Are you?
Decide what you will DO about it and then do it. Don't be talked into or out of anything, to keep a BF happy.
Tell him how you feel and what you are DOING about it.
He will just hide it from you. If that is OK, then let him do that.

2007-03-14 17:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Assuming that the images that turn on your man are of adult women.....(I hope!).....here's the question to ask yourself: is our sex life & romantic life strong and satisfying? If it is, there's really nothing to be concerned about. Your BF has some additional needs for erotic fantasies. But clearly, they are not getting in the way of him bonding with and loving a real flesh & blood woman. However, if you aren't happy with the amount (and quality) of lovin' that you are getting from him, it is of great concern that he is using other outlets. Please ask him about this in a caring and relaxed manner. But again, do not freak out just because he has an auto-erotic side.

2007-03-14 17:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Dagdagan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Depends on how often he does it and your personal beliefs. If you have moral issues about pornography you should address those. If you have jealous issues that is another matter entirely. Carefully evaulate what about the situation bothers you and talk to him about. How serious is the relationship. if it isn't a serious relationship I wouldn't worry about what he does in the privacy of his own bathroom -he just better not be doing it in mine.

2007-03-14 18:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by zookeeper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Should you be mad that your boyfriend has two eyes and a nose?

This is what guys do. Tell him to hide it better.

2007-03-14 17:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

Actually, he should be furious that you are discussing such a private and personal matter in a public forum.

All humans masturbate. Look it up it's a medical fact!

2007-03-14 17:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋

If he is a jerk you dont need him! First talk to him and tell him how you feel. If that dosent work dump him!

2007-03-14 19:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by Allie W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Better his hand than someone else. Be glad he isn't running around. Watch it with him and join in on the fun!

2007-03-14 20:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by vaairguard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

With porn. Yes. Some people wouldn't be bothered by it (I don't know who those people are) but you wouldn't be asking the question if it didn't bother you. So yes.

2007-03-14 17:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋

i don't see anything wrong with it. at least he's not going out to a strip club or out sleeping with someone else. it's harmless.

2007-03-14 17:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by Lil'MissThang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

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