i have been really stessed out. im on the schools science olympiad team, regionals are this weekend, and the teacher has been screaming at me. im working with my 2nd best friend leah on 1 event and we were supposed to work on it yesterday. she hung out at the park for 1.5 hours with our other friends, IMed with her bf 4 another hour, but couldnt take the time to even call me 2 say she couldnt work. today i got really mad and yelled at her. she left the room, went 2 Girls Club, bitched about me, and turned all my other friends against me. idk wut 2 do. please please please help me!!!!!
2007-03-14 10:20:54 · 4 answers · asked by astralprojector 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok, they aren't rlly true friends if they bitched about u and turned all ur friends against u. so, tell them to ***** off. U've got real fiends....sorta.
2007-03-14 10:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by ~JoBros Luver~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend & offer an appology for snapping at her.
You had placed some pre-determined expectations on her that she may not have been aware of.
Sure she agreed to work with you on your science project with you but did you have a set time & date that she was supposed to be there for you, or did you just expect her to show up at the 1st free moment that she had?
You are stressed out about the Science Olympiad, your teacher is yelling at you so that increased the stress level, & then you took it out on your friend.
It's understandable, but not excusable.
If you appologise & explain to your friend in a calm manner why you are feeling stressed I am sure that she will understand, & get in & do her share of your project.
I know it seems like everybody is angry at you right now, but I am sure that this is all temporary & it will soon all blow over.
By next week everyone will probably have forgotten all about it.
2007-03-14 17:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you had the right to be upset but if you yelled to much then she probably overreacted to that. and if she is going to turn all your friends against you and they are going to listen to her then you need new friends. it's gonna be pretty hard, but it is SO worth it.
2007-03-14 17:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by jen. (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends
2007-03-14 17:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by weezy f. baby Young money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋