i dont know if im pregnant or not but ive had sex twice and im 14
and im trying to like drink alot and all that so the fetus wont devolop
and like stress myself out cuz if i am pregnant i cant let my parents know
2007-03-14 10:17:41 · 41 answers · asked by Kaitlen 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You should have never had sex at such a young age.
Anyone who suggests to you a method to lose a baby is immoral themselves.
You need to tell your parents, if they find out later in life this will hurt them even more.
2007-03-14 10:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
ok well i lost my virginaty when i was 13 so i kind of understand where you are coming from! But, if you thought you were ready to take on all of the responsibilities that come with having sex then i think you should've thought about the out come if things before you decided to take that step in your life at such a young age! Im not judging you by no means but i have been there and it isnt fun! i think the first thing you need to do is find out if you are pregnant and then go from there do not try to drink and all that stuff just so you wont be pregnant! You have choices other than that if you are pregnant! i dont believe in obortions but i dont judge those who do! But, just find out if you are first and then start making the choice that you need to make! Drinking will not stop the baby from developing if you are pregnant it will just have a very good chance of harming the baby! so think about it really hard and make the best choice for yourself and that baby if you are pregnant! but here is my email if you need someone to talk to!
Mo_CLo@yahoo.com
2007-03-14 11:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by mo_clo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay Im not going to ask you why your having sex at 14 because honestly I think people can have sex whenever they think there ready! But if you think your pregnant and dont want to be, the best thing to do is wait for your period and buy a test. DONT TRY TO MISCARRIAGE and the reason I say that is because what if what your doing (stress,drinking), is not making the baby die, but just making him come out with problems instead? I doubt your pregnant having sex only twice, but if you are, then best thing to do is tell someone you trust thats over 18, if you are too embarressed or ashamed to tell your parents. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-14 10:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by curious789 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For starters, 14 is too young to be having sex. Secondly, you should have been thinkin about protection so you wouldn't have to worry about getting pregnant (birth control pills and/or condoms).
Now, having said that, I have to say this: you obviously weren't too smart since you think you're pregnant..... go get a home pregnancy test and do that. If that comes up positive, go see your dr and he/she will confirm that through a blood test. If you dont' want the baby you have a few options:
A) abortion (I know people will give me the thumbs down for sayin that but hey, it's an option)
B) talk to your doctor about what options he/she would recommend
C) carry it to term and keep it (make sure the father helps out)
D) carry it to term and give it up for adoption (there are lots of couples who would love to have a child but are unable to do so on their own)
Above all else, you need to talk to your mother about this if not both your parents. Being underage, I believe your doctor has the right to inform your parents about it and it's better they hear it directly from you than through the doctor.
And just so you know, drinking yourself stupid isn't going to stop the fetus from developing, it's only going to cause issues later (could have a birth defect). Drinking or drugs won't do anything to help you terminate the pregnancy.
2007-03-14 10:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well. Obviosuly, (if you are being serious) this is not the place to be asking this question. Anyways..
Firstly, just because you've had sex twice does not mean you are pregnant. Relax yourself.
If you continue drinking, acting carelessly, etc, and you ARE in fact pregnant, you may just end up giving birth to a child with Fetal Alcohol poisoning, or severe mental retardation issues. Don't do it.
You seem to have nothing against abortion, so why don't you look into that, instead of trying to make yourself sick? I'm sure you know this, and that it goes without saying, but be more responsible next time. And this is not the end of you life.
2007-03-14 10:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You really should think of not having sex anymore. There is always that possibility, no matter what, even if you've used protection. So, if you're not ready to be a mommy, don't do grown-up things. If you are pregnant, why not give the kid a chance? You don't have to keep it & raise it. Your parents would probably be more upset if they found out what you did to try and get rid of it. Also, think ahahead to the future, are you going to want to live that the rest of your life? I don't think so, just think about it. Either way, I hope you're ok. :) By the way, we all make mistakes, just learn from them.
2007-03-14 10:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking heavily won't kill your baby. It will just lead to problems later. You need to stop having sex because you obviously aren't mature enough to deal with it or the consequences. Do you use protection? For the love of all that is, please use a condom at the very least. You're far too young for this type of behavior. You should feel ashamed. Best of luck.
I also just read another question of yours. You are ill informed on sex my dear. "He didn't (bleep) and was only in me for 20 mins." Insert eyeroll here. There is such a thing as pre-ejaculate. It contains sperm. He wouldn't know it if he released it. It can get you pregnant. Please, educate yourself some more before you end up with an STD or pregnant, or both.
2007-03-14 10:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by duckygrl21 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok Gurl why? why would you do somting like that and aren't you a little too young to be having sex. look if you need help loosing the baby you need to see your doctor about but remember why mess around if you can't keep it. but then what else are you going to do because you need a parent to come with you to the doctors so if i where you i would to your school to ask some advice on how to loose your baby with out letting your parents know that your pregnant. I hope my advice help.
PS. have someone you know that is 18 or older to buy you a pregnacy test to really see if your pregnant.
2007-03-14 10:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by babygurl4urthoughts 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know that you were way too young to be having sex. It s too late now. You need to stop trying to get rid of it and go buy a home pregnancy test. If it is positive you are going to have to tell your parents and deal with this. consider giving the baby up for adoption. If you are not pregnant, do not have sex anymore and if you do use birth control. Good luck
2007-03-14 10:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have got to be the stupidest person here. Keep your pants on!!!! And while you're at it get a hysterectomy because there's no way I'd let you become a parent. What you're doing right now you don't deserve to have a baby. I hope you're not pregnant, ONLY because that baby doesn't deserve to have a mother like you. Grow up!!!
2007-03-14 10:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the method that you are trying all you are going to do is end up with a baby with severe fetal alcohol syndrome and having severe birth defects. I suggest you tell your parents, STOP drinking, and take on the responsibility of having sex at such a young age! See, there are consequences to your actions!
2007-03-14 10:25:25 · answer #11 · answered by Crystal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋