Ive been dating my bf for 2years now. We LOVE eachother! we live together with our pets. We also work for the same company. (but i dont see him at work)we get along very well. and tell eachother that we love one another various times a day! He tends to like to work on his bikes when he gets home from wk.. So he gets home and goes straight to the basement where his shop is....he hangs out with his boys and works on diffrent stuff! s I know he loves to wk. its his hobby! but by the time he comes to bed. Im already sleeping! so we dont have sex!this happens all the time! we have sex maybe twice a month! is there something im doing wrong?????
2007-03-14 09:43:34 · 11 answers · asked by Monica S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When he comes to bed, wake up and straddle him! I doubt if you will be declined. The fact is that sometimes we get so caught up in daily routines that we don't stop to enjoy life, and important aspects such as sex. It's normal for people to get stuck in a "rut" so break out of it by doing something spontaneous. If you get declined...then you have something to worry about because men don't just turn it down.
2007-03-14 09:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When he goes out with his friends you should join him that way you both make it home the same time and see what happens then. I think that he should make more time for you because it seems as if his love for work is putting a dent in your relationship. Talk to him about it and listen to suggestions on his part. Ask him what the 2 of you could do better so that your sex life will improve and if all else fails then maybe he is getting it from somewhere else or maybe he is gay. You never know til you ask. God Bless and believe me it is nothing that you are doing wrong because you are there waiting on him. He isn't waiting on you.
2007-03-14 10:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there more to this story than your really telling, but sounds like to me he just not feeling you and he has gotten way to comfortable around you. Or that he not attracted to you no more and you're letting yourself go. Or maybe he "GAY" and he's in the closet. I dont know you need to tell more about the situation and maybe I'll help you find the answer.
2007-03-14 09:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seduce him.
lock the door to the shop and leave little naughty notes on the way from the front door to your bedroom where you will be waiting.
If that doens't work and he still works on his bikes, you have a problem that you need to confront him on
2007-03-14 10:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's probably that he's just not sexually active, or maybe he doesn't even notice that he's doing wrong, you need to talk to him, be open with him and find out what he thinks, it's not right to pretend everythings ok when things arn't thats how problems get started.
2007-03-14 09:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by flirtatious155 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reallydon't know, but I would ask him. B/c that could ruinyalls relationship not being itimate much GoodLuck
2007-03-14 09:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dont sleep try to stay awake when hes coming in the bed or why not just ask him to have sex? i ask my husband to have sex with me straight out and he laughs about it
2007-03-14 09:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
u need to have a talk with ur dude or start looking elsewere
2007-03-14 10:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monica, come to papa. I will make sure you get enough s e x. I will pleasure you real well.
2007-03-14 09:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by rocky 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like this is his issue. why aren't you a priority? ask him! he should be making time for you.
2007-03-14 09:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by happylittlemom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋