My bf always asks me for a kiss & a cuddle.
I do like him but I feel that our friend ship is not that great.
Is it ok to kiss him or I better not to ?? does that mean he likes me or it is a tip for the friendship?!!!
2007-03-14 09:38:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
If he is really your boy friend then the normal thing that you want the same thing too , so I can think that :
1) you are just starting the relation now and he asks this at the first date ; so tell him that it will happen with time and not now .
2) you don't like the guy and feel you want to live your life without him , so be frank with him before you break his heart .
3) you are normal friends (not b/f - g/f thing) and he wants what he asks for and for that I tell you there is a friendly kiss and cuddle and there is the lovers one , so give the one at the right time and don't mix both , and ask him how he really feels about you and be frank of what you feel .
I hope I helped .
2007-03-14 21:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old you are makes a huge diffrence. so does how old he is. if you have a friendship, an ocasional hug when you feel like it, or a pat on the back, oughta be enuf. but you say he's yr bf. which is it cause it sounds like you dont want to get byond friendship and even that, you say, aint so great. most boys and well into old age will instinctively go for more, starting with kissing. at least he asks you first, thats sweet. but if you are too young, or dont feel like you want to kiss and cuddle, then tell him he's a boy who is a friend, not a boyfriend. easy for guys and gals to confuse the two. no matter how old you be, if he doesnt stay youre friend then you might be better off without him. good luck.
2007-03-14 11:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good number of the two thank you :) BQ: a undeniable lady singer from Evanescence springs to concepts lol :)) BQ: properly when I've complete cuddling Amy Lee i think of it would purely be honest to offer her a kiss ;)
2016-11-25 20:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sounds like he is asking for more than a friendship -- if you want it go for it -- talk to him and see what's up -- just make sure he is not looking for a friends with benifits thing.
2007-03-14 10:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Okaydokay21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think asking for a kiss and a cuddle (hug) is a good thing. It is respectful because he is asking not taking. It is polite because he could be asking for a BJ and a Fuuck
2007-03-14 11:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He obviously likes you. NEVER kiss your best friend unless you are planning to start a relationship. My vote is to just laugh it off every time and say to him "You wish!" in a joking manner.
2007-03-14 09:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can answer that question.
Are you comfortable with the idea? If so, and you want to, you should.
Are you uncomfortable? Then you shouldn't do it. And you shouldn't have to give any other explanation than, "I don't want to."
It's YOUR body, and you have the right to do as you choose.
2007-03-14 13:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by stormsinger1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is short and simple...
Kiss him in a romantic setting. Best start to a relationship...
2007-03-14 11:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he your boyfriend or are you just friends?
If you don't want to kiss him, you don't have to. If you are dating him, just tell him that you are not ready for that yet.
2007-03-14 10:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
physical closeness mean a lot to men more than sensitive&emotional closeness,
even he does not like you his final interest is what you have between ur legs
2007-03-14 10:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋