My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago over a stupid argument. We attempted to talk here and there and had a couple good conversations. I also saw him twice (one two weeks after we broke up and two weeks after that i havent seen him in a month). When I saw him he kissed me and told me that he loved me still and missed me and thought about me. We havent talked recently. Throughout the two months I suspected that he might have been interested in another girl but I wasn't sure if he was using her to get to me. Recently I saw an email he sent her that said that he hated when he missed her. I know its been two months and everyone tells me that I should just move on but I just love him so much and he even said that I was the perfect girl for him. Should I fight for him? and how would I go about fighitng for him? I am currently in school and about two hours away from him so its hard to see him and we arent talking online or on the phone.
2007-03-14 09:36:35 · 8 answers · asked by Angeleyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not that I want to fight now that I think he is interested in someone else. I have wanted to from the beginning.
2007-03-14 09:45:54 · update #1
The fight is kind of hard to explain. We used to talk and text message all day long. For the few days before the argument I hadnt really heard from him and I knew that he was having money and family problems but it still seemed odd to me. Some people suggested being good friends to keep the option of him cheating on me open. After I brought that up he got mad and we fought he also got mad that I chose to talk to my friends who I hadnt seen for a couple weeks instead of working out our problem
2007-03-14 09:50:39 · update #2
Thanks everyone so far. Can anyone give me ideas on how to get him back?
2007-03-14 09:58:49 · update #3
if he rly loved u he would try and keep in touch...if u rly love him call him and tlk to him reconnect wit him...u dont have to get back wit him immediatly just tlk and see where it goes
2007-03-14 09:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by hot little redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you broke up over a "stupid" argument... it would be good to know what the topic it was about. With respect to "fighting for him", if he said you are the perfect person for him, there is no reason to fight for him, just make sure you keep up a dialogue with him. While "absence makes the heart grow stronger" distance makes it easier to get distracted. If you want him, go for it... talk straight with him about having a relationship with him or not... if he is not interested, you know he is not ready for a real relationship and you are worth more than that, so move on and find someone who values you.
2007-03-14 16:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Robert S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard, but find some support (friends, relatives) and let him go.
Remember that guys will often tell you they still love you when they see a recent x, mainly to keep the doors open in case they need to come back, I know, I did it to someone before also.
Find some friends to support your decision to move on, and then do it. You will be much happier once you do.
2007-03-14 16:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u love him alot u should get him back.tell him u love him 2 and u wanna work things out.mayb u can fall n love with each other again
2007-03-14 16:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by janae_gaines 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You've got to move on. And, concentrate on your studies, stop thinking about boys.
2007-03-14 16:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by trudi25 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go, he is involved with someone else, you probably just want him now because he is interested in someone else, it is human nature.
2007-03-14 16:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have to fight for him. There is your answer. Let him go!
2007-03-14 17:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Estrella Negra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight for him tell him to have sex and get back together.
2007-03-14 16:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ava M 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋