what shall i do?

Question

i have a best friend,only the thing is that i don't wont to be a best friends with her,she is ok,only i'm very bored when i talk to her,we are very different and everything,but i can't seem to tell her how i feel,what i think of her......help me?

Answer 1

umm..... well just tell her you need your space and say that when you are ready you guys can be bffs again...and then if you ever are ready then you will bffs again...otherwise you can break her heart in half and have her hate you 4ever but she will forgive you...just tell the truth

Answer 2

Hmm. Well, you could give her a chance and just see if over time you guys become friends. Some best friends are completely different from each other and are close.
If you don't want to do that, just slowly separate yourself from her. After awhile she'll see that you are too busy or something and will find somebody else to talk to. Or you could just tell her that you're not so sure about being BEST friends with her. Tell her that you don't hate her, but you just don't seem to have anything in common with her. Just be nice and say what you feel.
You're not being mean if you say it nicely and have not done anything rude to her. After all, we can't all be friends with everybody.

Good luck!

Answer 3

what i would do, is if possible try to make yourself scarce. ya know, so be unavailable to her as much as possible until she gets the hint by getting tired of calling you, and then when she does get a hold of you, just tell her you've been really busy and haven't had enough time. Kind of like guys do when they are trying to break it off ya know? eventually she will just be pissed that she can't get a hold of you and by default someone else starts to hang out with her, which kind of is like turning it around where you can say she dumped you.

Answer 4

You don't have to be her best friend, I would say to her that before it gets worst.