If I have baby with him, it will add to the drama if we break up. If we dont't break up, by the time things are smooth it might be difficult to conceive. If we break up, and I got got pregnant by the donor sperm bank, then it would be less drama and I would have baby before it is too late.
2007-03-14 09:24:01 · 4 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Single parenting can be done...and done well...but raising a child is difficult enough with 2 parents. I wouldn't go it alone if there was a choice.
That said, you're obviously thinking you may not have a choice. If you're not absolutely certain he's the one, DON'T DO IT! You'll be tied to him forever, and not in a friendly way. You'll have to share the person you love most in the world with this man you don't even like!
I've heard a saying before: "Having a child is like taking your heart out of your chest and letting it walk around on the outside." Will you trust him with that?
The drama of the break-up is so unimportant...think about it...does it really matter in the long run?
2007-03-14 12:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you find a man you love and want to spend the rest of your life with.....
Sounds like any scenario in your question would be a diaster.
2007-03-14 16:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Elesha B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what is going to make you happy, If you want a baby and if you think that you are your man is no going to make it then I would give it alittle time to see what happens!!
2007-03-14 20:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
EH!!! are you for real???
Wait until you find Mr Right
2007-03-14 18:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋