Teenagers - I do not want my two daughters anymore!!?

Question

HELP ME

Is it wrong to feel that I do not want my two teenage daughters anymore? I'm at my wits end with them. I truly dislike them soo much I wish they would run away and ever come back home. Can I emancipate my self from my kids? I know they can be emancipated from their parents but, I honestly do not want them nor do I have any feelings for them at all.

I'm a single mother - who brought them up very well in a nice neighborhood. I don't know what it is but, I honestly can say if I didn't see the whites of their eyes ever again, It wouldn't bother me whatsoever. They both treat me very well and they both love me but, I do not have those same feelings for them. I do not love them. I just want them out of my house for GOOD!

Answer 1

I know we teenagers think we are all that, but wishing your daughters would never come back is horrible! If my dad ever said something like that to me, I would probably cry. I don't know what they did wrong, but remember, they are not teenagers forever and you were once a teen, too.

Answer 2

Goodness.. you are a disgrace to Mothers everywhere.

I feel awful for your daughters. They definately deserve a better Mother than you. How dare you say you don't love, or even want your own children!

Speaking as a Mother myself, I have all the sympathy and concern for your precious children.. and nothing but disgust for you. You should be so ashamed of yourself. You don't even deserve the title of "Mom".

A real Mom loves her children, more than anything in this world. You are a prime example of how just giving birth to a child, does not make someone a "Mom".

I can only hope and pray that your children do not get on here and see what their own Mother has said about them.. I cannot believe you can be so heartless, especially when it comes to your own children.

Bless their hearts..

Answer 3

Well first of all you need to realize..you are the one who brought them in this world and if you did not want them you should have figured that out when they were born. Next if they are teenagers then you are almost done with them, they turn 18 they are adults. I have never heard a mother say this, i think it is insane but you raised them, so your to blame if they make you crazy! Send them to their aunts, grandparents, uncles if you can't handle them..but i bet you like getting to use them as your dependents on your income tax ? If you give them up, you need to totally not have rights..no more claiming them on taxes, don't expect them to take care of you when you are 80 yrs old and don't expect to meet the grandkids one day, i think you need some serious counseling, maybe yall need to go to family counseling, you seem pretty crazy cause i have never had a parent not have any feelings at all, that is sick. Do them a favor.. let them move in with family members or something,, good luck to them, sorry they have to deal with a mom who gives up!

Answer 4

You need to check yourself into a hospital and tell them how you feel. Your daughters whether you'll admit it or not still need a mother's guidance. And for you not to what them anymore just because you don't want them is awful. DON'T ever wish anything bad on anyone else because if it happens you will be the one who lives with guilt. Try very hard to get some help.

Answer 5

I am a single mother and i have a 11 year old daughter and yes she has made me want to beat the poo out of her but I would never say that I don't love her because i do and I will always will. I was women enough to get pregnant with her i am women enough to stick with her They are you flesh and blood you need to be there for them as long as you can be. look at the other parents that has lost their kids they would kill the have their kids back and people like you are the ones that are putting babies in trash cans. you should reall y be a shamed of yourself. but that is ok you keep thinking like that and i am a firm believer of what goes around comes around and it will hit you like a truck.

Answer 6

OK deep breath. wow i understand that feeling i had 3 teen sons and one more just starting teen trip and they are a pain but like it or not they are ours and even when we want to run away from home and just let them fend for themselves we cant.that's why we are adults lol we have to be. get out of the house go to the movies take a drive a walk or even a crawl just get out and get some air never let them know you have felt this way talk about a let down to learn your mother is human and has feelings just blow off some steam somehow not at them lol i know its not funny but we have all been there and we feel your pain.

Answer 7

Trust me you will survive. You will change your mind about them later on. Find yourself a quite room in the house or go scream at the top of your lungs out in the car with the windows rolled up when you need to. They will eventually want their independence and leave on their own. Enroll them in a catholic school and let the nuns finish their education, if that don't straighten them out then at least they'll appreciate their home life a little more. Catholic schools are good at discipline.

Answer 8

For starters, calm down! You're going to regret saying this later. All teens are a pain in the butt, but guess what? When they grow up & realize that YOU were the 1 there for them, you'll be glad that having teens just made you a better mother. Right now, my sister & parents fight more than anything, becuz she's 14 yrs. old. Newly teen & she has a smart mouth. She wants piercings & 20 yr. old bfs. She wants tattoos & anything else that she can get. I understand what you're feeling, maybe. My sister has turned into a monster since being a teen. I've always let her shove me around & hit me, but these day, i am trying to stick up for myself. I'm 3 yrs. younger than her right now & she weighs about 40 lbs. more than me. She beats me up, so what am i supposed to do? Try some way to get back at her & that's not easy. Think about it: You really & truly do luv both your teenage girls. You may be fed up w/ their attitude, but deep down, you luv those girls. If you're SERIOUSLY (& i mean devistating) having trouble w/ them, then i recommend counceling for you 3. I know you probably don't want to, but i think it would help. All teens go thru this & all parents go thru this. You're not the only mom thinking this right now. Don't worry about it. Don't go looking for places to send your children becuz you think you don't luv them. Deep down, you do. My advice: Counseling & maybe go look up some stories about parents having troubles w/ their teens. You may find comfort & help. ♥

Answer 9

Teenagers can be massive pains in the ***. Are you divorced? I ask because maybe the other parent could assume responsibility and give you a break. Sorry you feel that way. Unfortunately once you have kids you're stuck, no matter how much they suck. Soon they'll be 18 though and you can kick their *** out.

Answer 10

Maybe you should of thought about this before you sex with whoever got you pregnant, those girls did not ask to be here you brought them her so be a real woman and handle your responsibilities!!!! How would you feel if your parents felt that way towards you. You obviously need some major help.