Been there done that .Here is my opinion.First if you are religious,marry if you must.Make a check on yourself .DO you still feel like a kid,if you do you are probably are to immature to marry.Marriage isn't about sex,it's about constant companionship.How much do you love this person?Are you willing to sacrifice your favorite things to please that person?Are you just obsessed with the idea of ownership?Marriage is not a way to control someone.If a person wishes to marry ,after introspection,yes they should .But people should have to pass a maturity exam first
2007-03-14 09:52:54
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answered by Robert C 2
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Every state in life has its own plus and minus points. But if u think that u will be totally happy by being married or unmarried then u r wrong. Life is mixed. We cannot escape unhappiness in whatever mode of life we choose. U need strength of mind for the way of life u choose. But whatever u decide be prepared to bear the consequences. If u can control ur biological needs then u opt for being single and stick to it. But having a live-in relationship is shirking commitment to a relationship which is very unhealthy for a society. U either get married or not get married but do not sail in two boats for ur own good. We have responsibility towards society and we must strive to make this world a better place and why shirk responsibility of married life if u cannot live alone. If ur marriage does not work then separate and be happy. Do not cry all the time if u are single for any reason, either not married or widow or divorcee as u are entitled to happiness. If u r unhappy then switch over to other area but accept the responsibility and lead exemplary life for ur own satisfaction.
2007-03-14 21:36:55
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answered by sudershan Guddy 4
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Some people never actually go through the official ceremony of getting married, yet they live together as if they were. So no, it's not necessary for everyone to get married (even if their parents make them think it is!) Nor is it necessary to have children, go bungee jumping or learn to skydive. Everyone should make their own decisions on the matter!
2007-03-14 09:23:58
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answered by SodaLicious 5
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YES. Either or he or she must marry for the sake of society. First to satisfy sexual urge and do not wander hither and thither for want of that momentary satisfaction. Next, to have a status in society. And the other things followed are to have children, earn money and enjoky life with social gatherings, functions and be together to know the Natural encouragement given my the society to learn, earn and burn the desires of life throught their events in life time. And, the lonely atmosphere cause many bade deeds. The society that we saw and going to see is nothing but the misunderstanding of these two genders. Unfortunately, the people of present generation and youth view only sex and the life of love and real true marriage and social customs and cutlture that keep society knitted and values upgraded in the community living..
2007-03-16 01:33:48
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answered by sr50kandala 3
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Well Everyone Need Someone With Whom He Or She Can Share Each & Everything,So ya Its Necessary.
2007-03-14 09:30:18
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answered by blueblood 3
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No it's not necessary for everyone to get married however, God did create Adam and for Adam not to be alone anymore HE created Eve. God has someone for everyone and HE never meant for us to be on this earth alone and that's why HE created 2 of everything that does not mean that HE want a woman to be with a woman in love and a man to be with a man in love and I'm not a hater because I have several friends who are gay but I'm not judging them cause thats not my place to judge anyone only God can do that.
2007-03-14 09:26:12
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answered by sharethalove 4
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I don't think it's "necessary" at all. It's up to the individual, no one else. Many people get married for different reasons. Hope this helps!
2007-03-14 09:21:49
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answered by RealtorMelissa 2
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I don't think marriage is necessary. I know plenty of happy single people and people who have been together for what seems forever but aren't married. I think marriage just depends on what the person wants for themselves.
2007-03-14 09:23:44
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answered by Anonymous
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ABSOLUTELY NOT.
It is still embedded in society's mind that people were put on this earth to procreate. And they would WANT to. This is 2007. We have enough people in the world as it is. You don't have to have a huge family anymore so you have hands to do the farmwork. We live in a time with opporotunities everywhere. Marraige is only one of these options. If marraige will make you happy, then do it. If it's just not your style, then don't worry. You're not alone.
2007-03-14 09:24:49
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answered by Thinking 5
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No, marriage is not necessary. You can find a significant other and live very happily with them without marrying. Or, you can live by yourself and be content with your friends.
2007-03-14 09:23:54
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answered by trudi25 1
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