Should I still be friends?

Question

My best friend just told me that he is friends with one my enemies. Should I still be friends? He's been my friend since 3rd grade.

Answer 1

i don't think that your best friends with an enemy of yours should affect the relation you have with your best friend. is a slap in the face, but there has to be a reason he is friends with your enemy knowing the fact that the person is your enemy. if your enemy worth losing your best friend?? i would think not, but i can be wrong.

Answer 2

As long as your friend is still loyal to you, and still shows you that there are pretty great reasons to be your friend, then there is no reason to give up on him because he is friends with someone you don't like.

The only time in my life that I ever amend this rule is for my very bestfriend of 17 years. I will cut all contact with a person who has done a severe wrong to her, be that girl or boy, ex-boyfriend or even if that someone has never harmed me.

Friends will come and go, and if you feel that this person who has been your bestfriend since the 3rd grade is someone who will be in your life for the long term, this other person you don't like won't last with your friend.

Answer 3

Yes, thats between you and your enemy not your best friend. My best friend is friends with a lot of people that I cant stand to be around but thats still my homey from 3rd grade (22 years) just like you.

Answer 4

Well if it hasn't changed anything between you and your best, then you have no reason to change things. If anything, look at it as an opportunity to patch things up with your enemy. If that doesn't work, then just keep things the way they are. Let your best friend spend time with both of you, just separately. But there is no reason to stop being friends over something that you have no control over.

Answer 5

Of course you should. You have to let people make their own decisions. If you are a good friend, then you need to support his/her choices and continue to be a friend. That doesn't mean you need to hang out with the person you dislike. Just keep an open mind - don't be judgmental.

Answer 6

A little piece of advice....NEVER give up your friends... unless its a really bad situation... if u just want to give them up for practically no reason, dont do it..friendship is very valuable..
Even if ur friend is friends with one of your enemies.. get to know that enemy of yours and maybe you misjudged them.. or maybe not, but for your friend to realize that you didnt misjudge his friend, he needs to really see what this friend is all about, so be a friend still...
Blessings

Answer 7

Well you can't ask someone else that question. Do you think you want to be friends with this guy? or do you think you want to ditch the loser and hang out with your other friends? What do you want to do?

Keep in mind that you've been friends for a long time and he is your BFF! And that means a lot and if it were me I would tell my friend that he/she isn't my friend and that I don't know if you should be friends with him/her because they did a bad thing to me! k?

Hope this helps lots!

Answer 8

ummm thats a hard one, i have a real bad trust issue and thats the reason i carry a knife when im around friends that are friends with enemies, youll never know when theyll turn on you !!!!

Answer 9

yh of course, he may like some one you dont but thats just the way things are. you shouldnt just not be friends coz he's mates with some one you dont particualy like.

if you tell him you dont like this person he might not hang out wiv them as much, he is your best friend after all, dont give up on him!

Answer 10

yes u should still be friends. just because he is friends with someone you dont like doesnt mean u still cant be friends. he can choose his own friends and so can you