i would really love a baby its been on my mind for so long now and it hurts cause i want one so much but my other half doesnt want oone for at least another 2 years
2007-03-14 09:03:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you guys married? If not, you should at least be married before having a baby. OH yes, I know there are all sorts of people out there who have babies while they're still living together....do the kid a favor and get married first. If you are married, why does he want to wait? Is he still in college, starting a new job, something that leads him to believe that he cannot yet provide for a new little one? Talk this one out, calmly and rationally, and see if you guys can meet in the middle somewhere. Marriage is all about compromise. Best of luck to you both!
2007-03-14 09:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So wait for another two years and then talk to him about having a baby then. Tell him how you are feeling and maybe he just wants to make sure that he has finances in order to be able to have a stable environment for the baby and i can sure understand this.
2007-03-14 09:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? Find a hobby; sounds like you're bored and don't have much going on in your life. There are plenty of things besides babies to keep you busy for two years. Enjoy your freedom.
2007-03-14 09:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is in charge of birth control??? Perhaps your husband is wise to have such a plan. It depends on your personal situation. And the matter should be resolved between you both........With both of you presenting your sides, and the reasons. Hopefully you'll both be able to make a good decision, TOGETHER......
2007-03-14 09:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't take birth control or find some one who feels like you do about you wanting a baby but be divorced first
2007-03-14 09:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time it will come.. if you wont make sure all your your bills and your have a home ready for the new life some time if you plan it will come faster then you think. Good luck.
2007-03-14 09:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then he is very selfish
2007-03-14 09:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I know how to answer this...............
2007-03-14 09:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by FIRE TIRE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋