i can't get this guy who my teacher out of my head ,i think about him in a nasty ways. i don't know what to do? i really want to stop ,but my head can't let him go. what can i do?
2007-03-14 08:58:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
...is he ur high school teacher?
2007-03-14 09:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. Just let the "nasty feelings" run its course. Its normal to be attracted to teachers just as you would be attracted to a celebrity. Just dont let it go further then "feelings". Otherwise if you tell him, you will be highly embarrassed because he doesnt feel the same way. If he does, then you have a HUGE problem and need to contact athorities right away. Once again, the feelings are normal, just dont let them become more than that!!!
2007-03-14 16:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is your main problem:
"I CAN'T get this guy out of my head."
You're right, you can't....if you think that way. However, if you think you can, then you can; and let me tell you, you can. Anything that resides solely in the human psyche is able to be controlled by correctly functioning brain (and even some that aren't functioning correclty - it depends on the extent of damage and the area).
So now you know.
The human mind is subjective. Remember that.
2007-03-14 16:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by __ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let nature run it's course! Don't let anything get in the way of allowing you to get to your deepest, darkest, most nasty desires, unless, of course, you don't want them to come true, In which case you should let them as I said before run their course and eventually they will go away!
2007-03-14 16:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Wesley O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't be the first to have a 'crush' on a teacher, in fact, this is a normal thing. As long as you do not act on your feelings you will be fine! ;)
2007-03-14 16:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's in control of your thoughts? You are! If you really want to stop thinking that way, just do it and tell yourself "STOP" when the thoughts pop up.
2007-03-14 16:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU are in charhe of what you let affect you..
YOU as well have control over your mind.. if u train your self in that way...
THis sounds like an inappropriate feeling..
tell yourself .. over and over.. I Cannot think this way.. deny yourself.. the thoughts.. and soon they will have no power
2007-03-14 16:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. That's why I told my brother not to become a teacher. You'll get over it in time.
2007-03-14 19:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by sunflowerdaisy94 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thinking and doing are not the same thing, just keep separate and enjoy
2007-03-14 16:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋