Do you think?

Question

That once someone is a certain sexuality i.e. gay/straight/bi they can't change? Well I used to be bi a few years ago but i no longer feel the same and i'm now straight. Doesnt that prove you can change? x

lmao. No need for sarcasm tracer. I was just wondering. I don't want people to change who they are. I thought you would have noticed that. I was bi before and people do treat you like crap lol. x

I didn't want to change. I just did.

Answer 1

I think that you probably haven't found a guy that your really like or are attracted to, and you prefer women to men


This is something that always bugged me...


If your bi then you like both sexes and Iv always heard and thought and read that you'll always like both sexes just it differs to some degree

meaning

60/40
women to men.. ect.

I personally have never felt anything towards women and I've always believed the same for bisexuals, once a bisexual always a bisexual your just not acting on desire or you like female more than male to a certain degree.

Answer 2

I think our sexuality can change throughout our lives. I don't think it is always necessarily a fixed thing, although some people obviously do have a very strong identity as gay, bi etc. I now identify as a lesbian & have no intention of deliberately trying to become straight, & I can't see myself as being straight in the future, but I'd never rule anything out completely. At one point I was engaged to be married to a man & at the time I truly believed that was what I wanted - I wasn't just doing it to conform to what society expected of me. I think it's great that you are able to recognise what you want, & stay true to yourself. It just shows that we shouldn't always be so ready to put ourselves into neat little categories.

Answer 3

Look, I'm sorry, but i'm bi and I have always felt this way, I honistly can't imagine swinging one way or the other, and both gay and straight people are constantly asking me whether I'm sure I'm not gay or straight. So, are you sure...? No, that's the wrong wording... How can you be so sure that you're definatly straight now? Or that you were bi before, could you have possably have been bicurious? I'm not trying to insult you, I just don't understand.

Answer 4

It proves nothing. First off, you still look kinda gay so who knows if you are just in denial. Secondly, many people suffer from identity disorders like borderline personality disorder which in some cases can cause sexual orientation confusion. Third, you might just have been experimenting and not truly bisexual. I think you are still confused or in denial because you would not be in here asking these question if you were as "changed" as you say you are.

Answer 5

I do not think you can change your sexuality. You are born gay or straight or bi and that's the way you are until you die. I don't know how you changed, unless you only think you have changed. I am gay, always have been and always will be. Be yourself and be happy!

Answer 6

You can't change if you are straight or gay. Bisexuality is different where you do have preferences for both sexes, but eventually you settle for one of the sexes. You just happened to go after girls and not guys.

Answer 7

Yes, I do believe that. I am gay and have no inclination what so ever to become str8, nor have I ever entertained the idea. Most str8 men wouldn't dream of becoming gay either. The idea is repugnant to each of us. Particularly if you are content with your sexuality.

Answer 8

You like this section?

Well I don't know, personally I don't think you can change. You might have been just going thru a phase.

Ps. Lol, TRACER

Answer 9

I should imagine if your gay or a lesbian you can't change. But bi is a different matter.

Answer 10

you cant say that you are straight now cos you were bi before, so you were diddling at both ends and just plumped for the one. crazy man