child.i'm only 19,shes 16.and my friend(auror)is 18.i am so not ready to be a dad..yeh ya probably sayin that shes not ready either,sorry to sound selfish but i am sure she will ask for help if needed.
i dont even like the girl,and i have a massive crush on auror.and heck if the kid is mine then it will ruin any chances i have with him.
but it cant be mine it has to be her boyfriends(his cousins).the ***** is trying to turn everyone against me.can i force her to abort it?
2007-03-14 08:52:30 · 18 answers · asked by seer_and_auror 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
actually 16 is legel in the uk.
2007-03-14 09:13:53 · update #1
she probably wants to cause a rift between you and your friend and his cousin.just ignore her.go out on the pull with them both and show her shes not getting to any of you.
2007-03-14 12:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by capitalbuddha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sweety.. sorry you can't force her do anything. the only thing you should be worried is being responsible. you are underage you nor her should of been drunk in the first place..then none of this would of happened. But being that it did, you need to step up and be responsible for your actions. First of all you need to talk with her and see what she is thinking talk to her parents and let yours know , you both are going to need all the support that can get. Check your state laws, because being that you had sexual intercourse with 16 yr old could not be legal, and her parents could even take it to court. Just be prepared, for anything that can happen. The best way to get things done are being supportive to her the baby and at the end you can request a dna test make sure is your baby, if it is then congrats you are a daddy! =)
really .. I know you guys are both young but don't be selfish think of the baby too, they have rights.
p.s as far as auror goes...guess what you lost your chances... so say bye bye and forget about it..stop cmplicating yourself.
2007-03-14 09:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by GIGI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you can not force her to abort the baby. Tell her to tell her boyfriend it's his. (Unless of course they havn't done it yet) There's nothing you can do about that. And about Auror, he's not gonna be too happy that you went off and did it with some girl. You have to take responsibility for your actions, and your baby. And face the fact that you ruined your chances with the boy of your dreams. Sorry. =]
p.s.
are you gay? cause if you are, what were you doing sleeping with a girl? i don't know a single gay guy that would do that, drunk or not.
2007-03-14 09:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by chelsea.lane 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! she shouldn't abort it. have a dna test done to see if the baby is yours. you shouldn't have had sex with her if you didn't want to take the chance at being a daddy. i know this probably sounds harsh, but if you did get the girl pregnant, you should take responsibility and stop trying to kill the baby because it's wrong and she will remember it for the rest of her life. GROW UP AND STOP BEING A LITTLE BOY
2007-03-14 09:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok cool down..... I had my first baby on the age of 18 and the guy grow to be 19 so your no longer on my own. Now the 1st situation you would be able to desire to do is help her using fact the final situation you pick is to pay baby help on a baby you won't be able to even see. whether the toddler isn't yours you need to be on the risk-free part..... like taking her to docs visits, so whilst the toddler is born and the DNA attempt proves you are the father you have got joint custody and you will no longer ought to pay baby help. i comprehend you're thinking on your head you won't be able to stand her, yet you probably did no longer have any complains once you have been getting a nut. 2d if this toddler is yours, specific your suitable that's going to alter your life no longer harm it. If something the toddler will assist you stumble on ladies/boys, women/adult males love toddlers. only chill out and take my suggestion i comprehend what i'm speaking approximately and don't take your hate out on the toddler it did no longer do something incorrect.wish i ought to help.
2016-09-30 22:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by lichtenberger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd hate to use the term "be a man" but in situation its necessary. The only thing you can really say about this situation is **** happens, not thinking about the consequences. You can't force her to abort it, she is not an adult anyway and would have to be accompanied by one to get an abortion. My advice if the child is your take care of it, if its not then learn from this experience and start using condoms and monitoring your drinking and who you are drinking with.
Good luck!!
2007-03-14 11:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♪2 kids+1 wife=magical♪♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ultimately the womans choice. There is no way in hell you can force her to do anything. Even if you don't want to be with her or there for the baby, that is now your responsibility and you should have thought about it before hand. You are old enough to know the risks of sex.
2007-03-14 08:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ah!!!! Dude what tha hell shes half ur age.
Ur like just 2 young to have a kid.
Maybe the kid is not ur,make her take a test 2 c hows the kid's dad is.
2013-10-15 03:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't force her to abort and you shouldn't. Are you sure it is your baby? If so, then it's time to grow up and take responsibility for your actions. It stinks but life isn't always fair.♥ Good luck.
2007-03-14 08:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with Jeremy Kyle. He specialises in things like this, and would pay for the DNA test.
2007-03-14 09:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ricecakes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋