Is this possible?

Question

You experienced hatred from a group of people in the past that you have delusions that everybody hates you? And what do you do to cure this?

Answer 1

Not only is it possible, it's very common. Many of us refer to this as an "inferiority complex".

I was trained by my brother's friends (one in particular) that I was fat and ugly (these are the words he used to greet me with every day). I was trained by my schoolmates that I was the extreme example of not cool (moved here in 5th grade from a place that was considered uncool).

This training led to lots of unfortunate behaviors on my part, in an effort to become wanted by someone - anyone! I used sex as a popularity tool - it doesn't work, so don't try! I ran away from home, because homeless people were the only ones who would accept me (at least that's what I thought at the time).

It wasn't until I had been dating my current husband for several years that I started believing that I had value to other people. It took YEARS of him telling me that I was beautiful, and that he loved me, for me to finally believe in myself.

What a shame that I let those unimportant assholes have so much power over me for such a long time. There's not a single one of them who has any value in my life now that I'm an adult...And I thought they were the whole world back then.

Answer 2

move to the nearest woods and become a hermit...it will work everytime...good luck and thanks for asking..