were both 18, i know thats young but we dated for 2 years. for a half of our relationship he was deeply depressed.he was diagnosed with being a chronic liar, having OCD, and ADHD,&lastly, depression.he began taking antidepressants just a few weeks before he broke up with me&it caused his personality2do a complete 180?he broke up with me impulsively, then asked meback out just days later then broke up with me again..all in the same week?ppl, including myself r beginning2think that he is bipolar.just days after the breakup,he told every1&any1 how he was going2get "laid" (even tho we never had sex)&then i found out he lied about his virginity(for2years!)the thing that hurts the most tho, is that i am a very strong person, naturally,b.c i had2be, in order to help him cope through his depression(even when he lost all of his friends)..he treated me horribly while we were 2gether, but now that its over, i feel sad that he is gone..help me2understand his behavior, is it possible he misses me?
2007-03-14 08:21:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No one can help you understand his behavior, not even him. You need to understand that he has a combination of things going on with him and that is a dangerous mix. You will never be able to fix him. You have to let him go so he can get the help that he needs. Maybe there is a therapist or a councelor you could speak with. It sounds like you are addicted to his problem. Thank you and may GOD bless.
2007-03-14 08:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times you cant help who you fall inlove with, or even if it is a infactuation by association because you had been close friends from an early age. Iam sure he thinks of you at times, but you must forgive his treating you badly when you 2 were together, so you can go on with your life and have a better one in the near future. And you cant really complain about his being mean or abusive in any way, because clearly he is very ill mentally and cannot help the way he acts at times. Chalk it up to an experiance you will nevr forget and dont dwell on it and be happy cuz lifes just too short to do any thing else.
2007-03-14 08:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by aka nuggets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He's too f***** up to miss anybody now. You said yourself that you are strong so maybe you miss mothering him. You can get over that now because he's on his own trip.
I would venture a guess that you miss the drama. You can trade his drama for some new emotions that are attached to a new man who is sure of himself. You don't want to be clinging to the past when that new man comes into your life. You can learn what it's like to depend on him for a change.
I don't mean to be cruel to your boyfriend but You asked the question from Your side, not his. Walk on and remember only the bad things if you want to drop off all the emotional baggage your old boyfriend left with you to carry. You don't have to take care of him anymore. Be strong. He's a puppy and you've got a future waiting for you to attend. Good Luck!!
2007-03-14 08:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, i think of he "lied" to you approximately being clinically determined a "persistent liar", what's that??? he's, curiously, a persistent liar yet I doubt he replaced into clinically determined as such from a specialist. you're youthful and clearly do no longer choose those forms of issues. you would be able to desire to run as a procedures far off from this guy as you may and stay away. He has way too plenty going on and you won't be able to "fix" him. The on back, off back, multi function week is insane by way of itself. i do no longer see how he could desire to be thinking approximately you while he has all of those subject concerns. He do no longer recognize what he doing from one minute to the subsequent for himself, no longer to point, thinking approximately somebody else. count extensive form the wear up from the guy , a "blessing" and circulate directly to greater effective and greater effective issues. drugs is going to alter him yet no longer inevitably for the greater effective. sorry :(
2016-10-02 03:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if you have low esteem problems,because why would you put up with that for two years.
2007-03-14 08:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋