are there free clinics that you can go to without having an adult 18+ there with you?

Question

im 17 years old and yesterday i found out that i was pregnant.i took three tests and they all said "pregnant".i told my boyfriend yesterday(on his birthday) and he was happy because we're having a baby but sad at the same time because we are so young.im a junior in high school.i havent told my parents yet nor his.i took this test online that gives you how long you are and it said that im 4 weeks and 4days pregnant.can i be longer because my last period only lasted two days and i usually have it for a whole week?i cant tell my parents yet because there a lot of problems my parents are dealing with right now and i dont want to get my dad more sick.my parents had me when they were16 and are still together but they have always told me that the one thing they dont want to see me do is get pregnant young and go through what they have gone through.i told my cousin and she has been a great help.how soon do i need to go to a clinic?i cant go wit my parents yet...i just have to wait to tell them

Answer 1

You can contact your local health department and they can assist you on what your options are as far as seeing a doctor...and yes you can see a doctor without your parents...I was 17 when I got pregnant. You could be further alosng, but when you go to the doctors they will be able to tell you exactly how far along you are....do this ASAP and then you need to sit your parents down and let them know. Good Luck with your parents and Congratulation. In the meantime until you go to the doctors you should go and buy some prenatal vitamins at your local pharmacy :)

Answer 2

Planned Parenthood is your best bet for a confidential discussion and advice on what to do. Call them for an appointment as soon as possible.

BUT --

You can't hide your pregnancy forever, nor can the boyfriend. You have about two months if you're slender, maybe three if you're a little larger. If you don't have a private bathroom, morning sickness will be a dead giveaway, so be ready for that.

To fight morning sickness -- sleep on your left side. Take vitamin B complex supplements (which you should do anyway) and an antihistamine before going to bed; this works for most women, for some reason. And keep crackers in your room.

Start taking prenatal vitamins NOW. If you can't find them, take a good complete multivitamin and the above-mentioned vitamin B supplements so you'll be sure to have plenty of folic acid. Stop drinking, smoking, and drugging if you haven't already. Go to bed a little earlier, and be ready to be tired during the day.

If you want to impress the parents when you finally have to tell them, get a job and get your boyfriend to get one as well. The better you're taking care of yourself, the easier the shock will be for them. If you and the boyfriend want to get married, now is the time to think about it. There are no pretty maternity wedding dresses, but it's better than waiting IMO.

Honey, it's time to grow up. The first step will be telling the parents.

Answer 3

There are definately free clinics you can go to. Planned Parenthood is a big one located almost everywhere. That's where I went when I found out I was pregnant. I brought an adult with me(my aunt, I hadn't told my parents yet either) because I was nervous, but most clinics have to keep patient confidentiality-even from parents.
I would say tell them soon though. They are going to find out eventually and better to tell them in advance and let them have time to get comfortable with it, especially since you sound as though you and your boyfriend want to keep the baby together. I was afraid to tell my parents, but I felt alot better once I did and they've been the most supportive people.
Its your decision when you tell them, but make sure you get to the clinic. You need to be taking prenatal vitamins and you want to make sure both you and your baby are growing healthy! If there are any risks with your pregnancy, the doctors need to know asap so the can make sure you are both safe. Good luck, it will be hard, but I think it's worth it!

Mommy of Matthew(2.5yrs) and Amber(10mos)

Answer 4

See if the place where you live has P-CAP(prenatal care assistance program), which would be like medicaid so that you can get the prenatal care that you and your baby need for no cost to you. If you need it to carry over after you have the baby, so that the baby has post-natal care, too.
You could be further along. It is possible. A level 1 ultra sound to measure how big the baby is is the probably the best way to see how far along you really are.
Wishing you all the best, Love. Don't give up on school!
Hugs

Answer 5

Wow! I know there's a clinic were you get free pregnancy testing and of course it's going to say positive. Anyway they'll direct you to a gyno who can help you and also help you apply for medicaid. I know they do all of this there though u would need to find where the teen pregnancy clinic is because I know it differs from state to state. Good luck and I hope this helps!

Answer 6

In Tennessee, there is a pregnancy amancipation law that states if you are pregnant then you do not need a parents consent for care, but if you need a emergency procedure, (D&C, blood transfusion, sometimes even an emergency ultrasound) they have to contact you gardian. You do need to get care ASAP so that you can be educated on your options and your doctor maybe able to help you get health insurance.

Answer 7

Well I don't know that such a clinic is possible to run, but I do know that you should be okay so long as you're 18 when you have the baby.

Answer 8

:(
I feel bad for you.
I hope your parents aren't too mad.
You should check at planned parenthood.
It's not a clinic, but it does help with unexpected pregnancies and teaching classes. :)

Answer 9

`YES THER IS YOUR LOCAL PLANED PERNT HOOD CLINIC U KNOW WARE THEY GIVE FREE CONDMS AND STUFF BUT U SHOULD TELL YOUR PREANTS THEY ARE GOING TO BE MAD FOR A CUPPLE OF DAYS BUT THEN THEY WILL GET OVER IT IM SHURE

Answer 10

oooooooooooo your in trouble.......you made your bed now lie in it.... you have to tell your parents no matter what or you will lose their trust and they will lose respect for you....