We were friends for a long time and it turned out that she is attracted to women and I ended up sleeping with her. Now I understand that she was more a man than a woman. It happened only once. I had not even kissed anybody before that. That was 15 years ago. I was 24 Since than I kissed a few guys but never had sex.
I've never been attracted to women. I like guys. I just can not meet the right one. But when I masturbate- I'm sorry but I have to speak up- I often think about her. I know this is totally sick, but how do I get rid of this obsession? Also, why can not I meet anyone? I'm a pretty woman. Please, talk to me. Thank you
2007-03-14 08:17:17 · 2 answers · asked by pinkink3131 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I do think about guys, but I just can not have them somehow
2007-03-14 08:18:14 · update #1
Are you sure that you're being honest with yourself? You must have been attracted to her if you ended up sleeping with her, otherwise it wouldn't have happened. You can think of a number of ways to justify it (e.g., she was more of a man than a woman, it happened only once), but the fact is that you chose her to sleep with and not these other men.
Okay, so let's say that you are completely heterosexual.... perhaps you should consider that maybe you've set your standards so high that you just haven't wanted to be with any of the men you met. The other thing is that perhaps you aren't really advertising yourself as available. If this isn't the case.... you should just keep trying... be patient... eventually, you'll find someone who will interest you.
2007-03-18 04:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by ms_lain_iwakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray on it.
2007-03-15 00:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋