Why is it that some of you feel this way. I would like to know. Why are some the adults who are 20 end up going to jail for a teen does to them. When I was 21. Teen girls would always try to talk to me from an adult chat room. I use to not really care. But now it is just annoying. I know of 2 teens that got a 20 year old in trouble and if I am not mistaken, he went to jail. you need to date boys not men. They are mature enough. I would appreciate it if you didnt get my fellow man in trouble and off to jail. It just isnt fair.
2007-03-14 07:47:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i used to date guys older then me but when it came down for them to get in touble i would just end the relationship to not get then into anything any problem with the law
2007-03-14 07:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by patty l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if they don't want to go to jail, they shouldn't be talking to the teenage girls anyway. Do you even know what some of those men do to those girls? Do you even look at the news?
Some of those girls are killed and raped by those men. Some of those men are pedophiles going into teen chat-rooms pretending to be teens to lure young girls into their trap. Yes, I have been attracted to a few men older than me, but not once have I ever even thought of dating one of them. And have you notice that some of those older men try to go with girls that are younger than them? Heck, I even had a 20 year old try to flirt with me, which I refused! Or maybe even older...
Anyway, you sir are a very ignorant person. That's all I have too say...
2007-03-14 22:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Echo♠ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
very good point but, there are ppl such as myself that has a boyfriend who is 20 and we've been together for a year. then again here in PA we have what we refer to is the "4 year" rule im not totally sure how many states inforce it & i do know some states are really strict when it comes to it. but there are some "teens" out there that can be in a mature relationship
2007-03-14 14:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls find attention from older guys flattering, then they do something, then they might get pregnant. it goes four ways from here 1) the parents dont believe the girl and press charges 2) the girl dosnt want the baby so re-writes the story in her head making it rape 3) it actually was rape, not all that common most of the time the girl was at least on the fence about it 4) they dont press charges and they girl gets an abortion puts it up for adoption or raises it w/ or w/ out the guy, again not all that common
2007-03-14 18:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey Lady 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the 20 year old guys should be smart enough not to mess with underage girls if they are afraid to suffer the consequences...these guys made their own choices to mingle with little girls so its serves them right if they went down for it...dont be pissed cuz they were stupid enough to get themselves in trouble with something illegal.....being with an underage girl is just like doing something else illegal, u know the consequences so make ur decision
2007-03-14 14:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by mixdupblondie 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have the opposite problem I'm too young for my gf I'm 16 shes 19
2007-03-14 14:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by zach b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about the other way around. if you're the adult, then walk away from them. teenage girls want attention and they don't care who gives it to them as long as they're cute. plus, older guys have money that guys their age don't. so, be the adult and don't mess with them. good luck:)
2007-03-14 14:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by Neenah 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i used have a little crush on my friend's big brother who was 19 but nothing more
2007-03-14 14:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably has to do with it's easier to do a 20-yr old than somebody of your own age.
2007-03-14 15:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Russly F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was younger - yes, i liked a guy that was older than 18. but i never pursued it
2007-03-14 14:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋