I've honestly seen women do this not just checking out adult men but even teen boys. Is this wierd or is it normal?
2007-03-14 07:40:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it's very inappropriate, but of course, with all the divorced or never-married moms, the moms are looking, too. A parent should not share their child's sexuality. It really borders on incestuous. It certainly is the mom competing with her daughter in an area she doesn't belong.
2007-03-14 07:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by cassandra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's weird but it's quite usual, however the reason for it is not what would be implied by observation. A mother feels her daughters attention going to girlfriends and boys when it used to be Mom who was the "confidant" and without realizing it they take on a role equivalent to a "girlfriend" and enjoy the camaraderie and jesting. I think a time comes for Mom to realize she must break from this and assume the role of mature adviser or daughter will lose the security in her advice! It's time to untie the apron strings. Also some women could get their "wires" crossed and be flattered by young men's attraction to "older women" and start encroaching on their daughters life in a hurt full manner! So someone needs to wake this type up in a hurry. It's normal to see what you are observing, it's a part of changing life phases.
2007-03-14 07:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not weird and wonderful as long as you're protecting comments G rated and not say irrelevant issues, like, "i choose to do him." additionally, be careful to describe that together because it rather is relaxing to look and usual too, there is a lot greater to relationship and love than purely finding out a lovable boy, so make an effort to instill the morals and ethics which you particularly choose on your daughter to boot to easily having a splash relaxing.
2016-12-18 13:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think probably the mamas are just trying to be friends with their daughters, but this is NOT something I'd do with my teen daughter!! Adults should be adults.
2007-03-14 07:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cris O 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds fine... like if they have that sort of relation ship were there close than ya, i would think its normal i mean there both girls. like teenage girls do it all the time and im sure older women do it to. so a mother and daughter can do it. its fine mabey... like it doesnt happen a lot.. but its fine to me.. like me and my grandpa check out hot girls lol (when were together i dont c him very much) ... lol but like u know?
2007-03-14 13:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird!! Lets hope those boys are over 18 or she could end up in alot of trouble should she decide to act on her desire for young boys.
2007-03-14 07:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its normal its good that a daughter and her mom could haev such a good relationship cause an older person could think a boy is "handsome" and just say look hes cute, u think so?
2007-03-14 11:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by PinkGink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did anyone ever notice the people with color bandana's (that look like hats) always give the mean answer?
it's probably some gossipy-thing. yes it's normal.
2007-03-14 08:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by Russly F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as checking out me its normal i do it with my mom all the time. but as far as the mom checkin out teanage boys thats kinda creepy.
2007-03-14 08:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by I <3 RUSSIANS MORE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do that with my teenage son,,and even my teenage grandson....advice is advice,,,,and why do young girls want to be clowns ,,,,,,,,I mean all that makeup ......and the clothes ,,street walkers wear more???????????
2007-03-14 13:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by tnedutsmp .rM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋