I agree that if any man does that he is insecure. It is almost like sneaking around behind your wifes back. What if she were to know about it. It can bring alot of stress to a marriage and alot of questions as to why. It depends on how you define "wrong". Do you think it is wrong?? Do you feel that you are not doing something that is right? If you think that then yes its wrong. If you believe that what you are doing is ok and right than go ahead. Besides porn isnt real and neither are the women at the strip clubs. Guys do it for insecurity. Alot of married men in my opinion still want to act as if they are single. Im sure there are couples that do those things together and have an open and honest relationship with one another to be able to do those things. In my opinion if a married man goes and watches porn or goes to strip clubs without his wife then their relationship isnt so open and that there are probably stresses already in your life. Alot of people have their own "idea" of what is right and wrong. Ask yourself.....and weigh out the pros and cons of this and you will know exactly if it is wrong or right.
2007-03-14 09:43:22
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answered by Sweetheart 2
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No not at all. I think that a man who has to sneak around to go to strip clubs or watch porn is unhappy and in turn adds stress to a marriage. Besides a confident woman shouldn't have to worry about it. Talk about it, make sure that he's just going for the eye candy and not going any further than that, as far as watching porn, I mean watch it with him.
2007-03-14 09:09:24
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answered by Lisa D 5
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As long as he's letting his wife know about the strip clubs up front, I see no problem with either of these on occasion. If it was an every night thing or even an every weekend thing, I might be worried.
2007-03-14 18:05:29
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answered by Vickie R 2
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i dont see anything wrong with watching porn. my husband does. no big deal. the strip club is another story. no married man has any reason for going to a strip club. i would kick my husbands *** and then leave him.
2007-03-14 08:34:48
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answered by ladybug_78 2
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