this may sound stupid. but for years now i have always fallen for the straight girls. sometimes not knowing they are then i find out and i get upset with myself everytime this happens. any advise or solutions to this problem.?? please be serious. thanks.
2007-03-14 07:33:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im a lesbian, if anyone was wondering
2007-03-14 07:49:18 · update #1
I have the same issue. I think it's a combination of things. I think it is partially the challenge, and when it works it's a rush. It is flattering to have someone who would never previously consider a different way of life suddenly try it "because of you". Stereotypically, straight women also tend to be more feminine and if you already lean toward that in your taste, it just makes such a great combination if you like a challenge. I certainly do, that is my nature. Unfortunately, it can work out badly, too. You just have to be careful and know when to stop pursuing.
2007-03-14 08:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by U2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very common problem. Gay men fall for straight men all the time. We find the straightness attractive.
The key is to make sure you know who and what you're dealing with before you let your heart take over. Lead with the head.
Getting more involved in Gay/Lesbian causes and functions will help you find someone you can be sure of.
2007-03-14 07:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by RJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same. I'm a lesbian who always falls for straight women. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. If you're a guy, then maybe you're not gay.
2007-03-14 07:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its just like the guys you are there for the conquest
Don't be fulled if you can fall for both sides of the fence you can fall for straight or gay man also
2007-03-14 08:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by manoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you like the idea that they might turn gay for you. Try hanging around other lesbians more often, they might even have a more practical way to get around that problem.
2007-03-14 07:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by zhi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ughh i no what you mean i always fall for girls who i can never have.. it sux.. so srry i dont have any solutions considering im in the same situation.
2007-03-14 08:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't lick 'em, join 'em. HEHEHE.
2007-03-14 07:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Snogood 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋