Is oral or hand j o b s really so bad? I've received them both but its been just a fling with my guy friends not anything big deal. Have any other guys done this?
2007-03-14 07:22:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you were born, LGBT, you will be LGBT. If you were born straight, you will be straight.
You are confusing sexual behavior with natural, inborn orientation. You can experiment all you want - that won't change your orientation. In fact, such experimentation can help you realize where your true orientation lies.
Good luck!
2007-03-14 07:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've talked to many boys who admitted to experimenting in their adolescent years. Some just masturbate together (no touching each other), some received/gave/both handjobs and/or oral sex. A few even received/gave/both penetration. Only a few of them later turned out to be gays, most of them became straight.
What's interesting is that, they all admitted it was fun. Some even wished they had done more/further experiments.
So, enjoy it while people still accept it as normal, because as you grow up, people will start to point fingers and judge.
2007-03-14 08:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Abang 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal, most boys do it, em you just know they do, they wont admit it though.
I dont think your gay, just sexed up, cause you say you ve received them both.
Its ok if you ve done it too but its harder to admit that you have given other boys hand jobs or oral sex.
I say, if you enjoy what you do, you re not geting hurt, or hurting anyone, then do it if you want to.
Oh and yes ive done it too, lots of times, I realy like it.
I guess im sick too, like some of the macho freaks have told you. They have propably done it themselves but feel so guilty about it, they slag us off for having some boy sex fun.
They say one in four are gay or bi, one or more of your guy friends are that way, you cant be made gay you either are or your not.
If you are gay, support a friend who is also gay. If your not support him anyway, he will need real friends.
Good luck & take care, David xxx
2007-03-14 08:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by wowdavid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you gay, but it doesnt mean you are definitly str8 either... many guys experiment, some more than others, and some of them turn out str8. what you need to do is decide whether or not this means more to you than just sex and fun. i think 14 is a little too young to know most definitly for sure if you are gay. i started out experimenting with my friends and even still dated girls up until i was 16 and realized i was gay, so far all of the guys i have experimented with are still straight.
2007-03-17 23:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by bj200420042004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person is "Gay" when they identify as being gay. Many people experiment with their sexuality. Different sexual dynamics can appeal to people at different times. A person might engage in different categories of sexuality at different times in their lives. Labels are a generalization and need not necessarily be for ones entire life. So, this means you don't have to worry about saying "I'm LGBTQ" at one point in your life and claiming something else at another point in your life. As people change, their attractions may change too.
The most important thing I can tell you is this: No one, not a single person on this entire site, can tell YOU whether or not you are gay. Gay, Straight, Bi, Trans, Het, Soc A-sexual, etc are social labels on human sexuality. This means that the healthiest thing for you is to pick your own labels, if you want any at all.
Best of wishes!
Amiko-Gabriel
2007-03-14 08:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it with my straight buddy, and we're twice your age. Experimenting does not necessarily make you gay, unless you go a little further. You're experimenting to see what you like best.
2007-03-14 09:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always heard that is perfectly normal behavior. You will more than likely just grow up with a better sense of who you are and what you like.
I would say however your ability to actually discuss it sets you apart and ABOVE many of your contemporaries who do experiment but then lie about the fact.
You sound like a well adjusted, healthy young man to me.
2007-03-14 07:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
no, you are at an age where many boys will play with other boys...you either grow out of it or you don't . STop with the worry, do as you will. Your genes will dictate what sexuality you will follow...you will have little or no choice in the matter. Good luck.
2007-03-14 07:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All teenagers experiment, but playing with gay guys won't make you gay if you are not. You will know in yoursdelf when you get a bit older.
2007-03-14 07:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Yes it makes you gay, to let another guy give you oral or even touch your thing..
Boys talk about these things but only experiment with eachother if they are gay. You may be gay and not know it.
2007-03-14 08:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Venus 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋