Its always if I do this then things will go my way, if I buy that then things will turn out. What is that feeling that just needs to be satisfied? I feel it inside and I want to cry but I really cant. I just cant get in touch with myself.
2007-03-14 07:10:07 · 9 answers · asked by b 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
All of us are born with a "hole" that we are trying to fill. God is the only one that can fill the hole and give you contentment. But, as humans, we look to other things - shopping, drinking, drugs, sex, gossiping, pornography, etc. . . . to make us feel "good". The only problem with that is you need more and more and more and it is never enough.
God is enough.
2007-03-14 07:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Desire is an essential part of human nature. Sometimes it's called the "lizard brain" or brain stem. When it goes haywire some people would say it's due to programming, self or even advertising, telling us rules (buy this, do this and you will be happy). If it is, these unhelpful beliefs can be de-constructed through self-awareness, which you seem to have much of.
2007-03-14 14:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Wave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop watching commercials on TV, and don't take them so seriously. There are much better and longer lasting remedies to what ails you than compulsively buying things. Take a good long look at what you want and why you want it, and then decide if that's what you really need.
2007-03-14 14:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by charliecizarny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling where you grasp at other things to make yourself feel better I think those are boobs. If you have boobs, then yea, you can definitely get in touch with yourself, that's not against the law I don't think. If someone ELSE does it then YEA that's against the law! Unless you let them.
2007-03-14 14:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by joey k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depression. you are trying to make yourself feel better by finding a quick solution, which will work for the moment, but you are not addressing your real issue. That is why it keeps coming back. You need to evaluate why you are feeling bad and address that issue.
2007-03-14 14:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by DAD_to_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its because ur body is stressed and it needs to release energy so squeezing a stress ball for example would be good cuz you pump ur muscles and release energy.... or if its a person then use the stress ball and pretend its her head...its many reasons but i think its about the realeasing energy
2007-03-14 14:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Rubba Bubba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say 'instant gratification.' I'm not sure if that's what you're looking for, though.
2007-03-14 14:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instant gratification or impulsive behavior
2007-03-14 14:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
come on kate
stop that grabbing yourself thing
didn't mama tell u that u can go blind doin that
2007-03-14 14:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by willow 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋