... is this normal? I am mid-aged adult / never yet married and we will be making a move out of state. Everthing as i know it will change.
2007-03-14 07:08:53 · 11 answers · asked by lindasue m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is totally normal. Just hang on, girl! Life will be very hard for you when you're first married, but stay in constant communication with your husband about how you're feeling.
You can make it!
2007-03-14 07:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by worldtraveller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, everyone talks about how the "wedding jitters" are normal, but I truly believe they are a warning sign. Don't be convinced that normal means good. Alot of women, who are honest, will tell you that they should've run away screaming (like Julia's mom in The Wedding Singer). It's true, I know I should have. How many marriages do you know of where the couple is truly happy with eachother? And you say that you'll be making a move out of the state. Have you been to the other state? Yes, everything as you know it will change. The wonderful man will no longer be required to be on his best behaviour. It will go downhill. Listen to your gut. Listen to the jitters. Be afraid. Don't do it. Pardon me while I prepare for thumbs down from those who are miserable marriages and just want you to join the ranks. I hate to be so negative, but I wish someone would have told me. (Now, whether I would have listened or not, haha. But if I knew then what I know now, I would not have gotten married. I don't think alot of people would have.) Good luck.
2007-03-14 07:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by saint_iniquity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably the change you are jittering about. Alot of meople experience before marriage. My husband did and questioned if it was a right decision. Dont worry and think of all the happy thoughts.
2007-03-14 07:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are completely changing your life as you know it, so of course your feelings are normal. Think about how scary it is to venture into the territory of a new job......while everything else in your life remains the same. Now do that same change to your entire life....see how normal it seems to have some reservations? Just jump in feet first....you obviously know you are making the right choice for you! Congrats and love your new life! You can take this opportunity to reinvent yourself if you want to!
2007-03-14 07:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natrual! every woman gets nervous before her wedding. if you are moving out of state that is also something to cause more jitters. dont worry, just have some chamomile tea and a massage a few days before the wedding. all is ok, you are marrying a wonderful man who treats you well. dont worry enjoy your day and know that everything will be ok
2007-03-14 07:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your heart. It is normal to have the last minute jitters. Trust me he is having them too it just doesn't show as much.
2007-03-14 07:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, Your asking your self are you making the right disition. Things are going to change it's normal to have these feelings and just wait until he wants to have kids the jutters get worse from there
2007-03-14 07:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's absolutely normal, sister! Change is a good thing, and yes, sometimes its scary, but you will move past it and be stronger for it.
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2007-03-14 07:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's normal for some... I've never experienced it, tho. I'm usually quite confident in my decisions, and don't like to second-guess myself.
2007-03-14 07:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is normal. It happens all the time.
2007-03-14 07:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋