hola peeps well i really like this guys and i dont know what to do :( i've talked to him online and on the phone but i guess he has a girlfriend now but he never said he had a girlfriend to me or online so yadada mean :( and i really like him and people tell me good things about him so should i tell him i like him but i dont want him to use me because you know when someone knows something and if things dont work out between him and that girl i dont want him to run to me and just have me there yadada mean i what him to want me for me not as a back up plan so please help me
2007-03-14 07:04:30 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do not tell him you like him yet. Continue to be his friend and try to be supportive of his relationship with his girlfriend. When or if he breaks up with his girlfriend, wait a while (about 1/2 the time he was with his girlfriend) before you confess your feelings. Remember to have respect for yourself. If he starts going after you right after he is breaks up, tell him it probably is best if he had some more time. If he goes after you during his relationship, tell him he needs to break it off or run far, far away.
2007-03-14 07:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is not to tell him.. Stay away if you know he has a girlfriend. And if you really like him, be on the look out, and when he's free talk to him (doesnt matter if you start the conversation).... But let him make the move about going out, or talking on the phone. Good luck!
2007-03-14 14:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him, its a very mature thing to do. You can play games all you like, but the truth is, he will know you like him anyway. It is only ever true love if you fully give yourself to the other person, and if they use you, then great, how wonderful. I wouldnt see that as a bad thing at all, because it is when you are not afraid to give yourself and possibly lose that you experience real love. You can never expect someone to give themselves to you if you are always holding something back.
2007-03-14 14:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by crashdog492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen him? Out, or on a date? If not and you just talk to him on the phone or bye computer, then he probably is just having a convertation with who ever will listen. Get off the phone or computer, and find some real people, friends, and go hang out somewhere. There you will have a better chance of meeting someone. Go to church on Sunday.
2007-03-14 14:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by alisonking74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with him. He's already using you to fill in the voids that his girlfriend doesn't already fill. If you're going to be his back up girl, what's to keep him from getting another girl on the side if you two start to go out. Sounds like he's a player, once a player always a player. He will cheat on you before your first date is over.
2007-03-14 14:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Leafs Rule! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be there when he needs you. That's the best time to catch the fish and when he realize that you are great he will forget about the other girl don't you watch the stories
2007-03-14 14:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by lady bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait to tell him. atleast not until you know for sure he dosen't have a girlfriend. make it obvious that you like him don't just come out and say i like you. flirt play a little game. thats always worked for me. and you don't have to let it up till your ready.
2007-03-14 14:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋