2007-03-14 06:50:10 · 12 answers · asked by americancontractor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait till you're divorce is final. I know it's hard and you want some companionship and/or just sex, but heal first (I know everyone has their own time in doing this). If you start dating, who knows the ex could possibly use it against you, even though the courts say they don't care, it may determine how you are viewed, morally.
2007-03-14 07:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait the full year. When your divorce is in process, you can go out, you can casually date, but don't get into any serious relationship with someone until your divorce is final and you wait for about six months. The reason being is you will still be carrying around alot baggage and hurt and you need time to heal. Most psychologist will say the same thing. What happens is when someone goes into another relationship quickly after divorce, they tend to talk too much about their ex, bad mouth her, and it is a turn off to most women. Also you don't choose wisely and marry the wrong woman again.
2007-03-14 10:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until after the divorce in finalized! Women do not want to be going out with men who are married. Too many guys say they are seperated or divorced but really aren't, and you don't want to be in that kind of situation with a woman.
2007-03-14 06:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by redhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your divorce is final. Then, wait another 6 - 12 months.
2007-03-14 07:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if you have been separated 7 months, and you have filed for the divorce that there is nothing wrong with starting to date again. It can help you to move on.
2007-03-14 06:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by hlind28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for a divorce and wait untill its final before getting involved again.
2007-03-14 06:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating until the divorce is final and she can use you dating before the divorce is final against you in some states. I would wait.
2007-03-14 07:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you not filed for divorce yet? I was once in your shoes but I started dating right after we split up and I am now engaged to the man:)
2007-03-14 09:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should wait till at least 3 months after your divorce is final
2007-03-18 05:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE still married. Have some dignity and honor and wait until your divorce is finalized.
2007-03-14 07:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋