Girls always seem to complain about being in a relationship with a nice guy. They may even say that "Your too nice". What the heck is there problem. Then they end up in a relationship with a guy, that anyone who just takes a look at him know that he has atleast 2 or 3 girls on the side. But the girl I guess denies it in the back of there mind. I have been around and have seen it countless times.
2007-03-14 06:46:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The problem is them. They know being with a nice guy may mean that they have to be more responsible. Nice guy is a serious thing. Everyone knows who the player is, and he puts more motion, anxiety, excitement, and anger in the life of the girl. The player is a way for a girl to not get really involved in an adult relationship. And he makes a great topic of conversation with her friends.
2007-03-14 06:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure anyone likes to get played. As far as girls not being in relationships with "nice" guys, you have to evaluate what nice means. Read a book called "No more Mr. Nice Guy", search for it on Amazon. I am not saying you are a nice guy, but this book has some great insights about men and getting what we really want. Are you really being your true authentic self to attract someone who is like you? Or are you acting a certain way because that is how you think you will get what you want? Stop wearing a mask, be who you are, and love the moment you are in. Start looking for who you really want to be with and she will show up.
2007-03-14 06:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by joshb2025 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think people, not just girls, have a tough time admitting that the person they like might not be that into them - so they ignore the signs of other people on the sidelines. And just as guys will say they just don't want a relationship to get themselves off the hook to some girl they're just not that into, girls who find themselves spending too much time with some guy they kindof like but just aren't that excited about do the same thing.
2007-03-14 06:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been wondering about that myself. What is this hatred of nice guys? Lots of women nowadays are refusing to let men hold the door for them.
It seems like it could be some evolutionary response that makes men keep striving and improving themselves.
It's not really up to the individual who they date. They have to go through a consensus of other women to get the one they 'want'.
Maybe the term is being abused by jagoffs who all claim to be the nice guy, and tout themselves as such, while being a total pig. As usual, bad people ruin a good thing for everyone else.
2007-03-14 06:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Menga M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a huge generalization - (and it's in the marriage and divorce section?).
It may be true for many, but not all. I would never go for the player guy with girls on the side. I could always spot them a mile a way. I like nice guys. In fact, I married one - as did all of my sisters.
2007-03-14 06:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have often wondered that myself. I have met very few women that don't put themselves in the same situation that you describe. It's as though they like to be emotionally abused. Take heart though, they are women out there that are getting smarter all the time and don't deal with those type of men after getting burned a few times. You just need to find one that has a bit more experience in life.
2007-03-14 06:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women like to feel her man can protect her and take care of her. Nice guys sometimes give the perception that they are incapable of taking control of any given situation. You can be a nice guy AND an alpha male all at the same time. Don't be afraid to take control, but don't play with her emotions.
2007-03-14 06:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're hanging out with the wrong girls, dude. I'm married to a "nice guy", and couldn't be happier. Of course, in the past I had met some that were not so nice - but hey, I'm not married to them.
2007-03-14 06:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They might be used to being treated bad by other men (their fathers, brothers, etc.) and may subconsciously believe that they only deserve jerks that treat them like crap. Also they are comfortable with those types of people.
When a nice guy comes around, they are not attracted to them because they are different. It's not what they are used to.
2007-03-14 06:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 22:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋