I'm this guy who has had problems with my second wife of 10 years.I have a daughter from my first marriage that she doesn't want me to see because she tries to monopolize my time because I work alot of hours, especially on weekends,when I'm away from work.I met a woman online from another country and I'm online with her most everyday .We talk at least 3 times a week.She has visited me regularly in this country.I have fallen in love with her and now she is moving here to be near me.She is 14 years younger than I am,is much more exciting,is way more attractive and ,and I feel as though it's time to get away from my situation at home.My girlfriend is single, has no children and doesn't want any,so it works for me! Women from other countries are more loyal,less bossy,and will generally take care of their men more than most American women will do.That is my gut feeling.........
2007-03-14 06:36:37 · 11 answers · asked by Todd S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seek GOD he'll give you the answer.
2007-03-14 07:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To bad you are not putting as much effort into your marriage as you are with the other woman.
How about talking to your wife for hours? Planning time with her like you did when someone visited you? How about emailing your wife, sending her flowers. Making her feel loved and SECURE.
I am married, my husband works long hours and is on call sometimes. We plan out time for one another - it takes effort, understanding and love. Remember your wedding vows?
I honestly feel sorry for your wife. You are not treating her with any respect. What if the tables were turned and you were in her shoes? How would you feel?
Cheating is mean and it hurts the other person so bad. I know, I was cheated on by my ex fiancee. There is nothing lower you could do to her.
I hope you make the right choice. The one you made vows to.
Take care,
2007-03-14 08:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew your wife I would tell her about your cheating and how you really feel about her. HOWS THAT FOR LOYALTY!!! If you are so unhappy with America then leave I am sure that us crappy American women will miss you ever soooo much. Also women today work just as much as men do and it is about time men start taking more responsibility in the home and in the relationship. In my opinion you are a loser and if you are unhappy then be a man and get a divorce don't be a loser and cheat on her. There is something that is keeping you married. GROW UP AND BE A MAN!!!!
2007-03-14 06:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you have sufficient to handle without bringing in yet another individual - and individual who isn't bodily latest. i will see that it would be undemanding to think of that this is love, however the reality is that there is plenty extra to love than chats on line. this isn't any longer a great thank you to deal alongside with your very actual issues, and you're unfairly toying with yet another individual's emotions once you have no longer appeared after out your individual. do no longer go searching till you're the two complete with this marriage. 2d, there is no such element as "been at the same time 5 years and be attentive to each little thing approximately me". human beings are starting to be and changing all the time - you are able to no longer have confidence which you be attentive to each little thing approximately somebody or that they be attentive to all approximately you. this is the undertaking and astounding thing approximately time and love - your dedication is to a changing individual, no longer a stale image that continues to be a similar. 0.33, get help, get counseling, and don't wait. on your babies, for your self, on your destiny courting alongside with your spouse,(divorce or no longer). you will no longer have the skill to split your lives, so that's rather considered necessary which you artwork issues out a minimum of to a element the place you are able to communicate with reference to the youngsters, proportion significant days, and not leave them completely scarred and puzzled. good success, I choose you properly.
2016-11-25 19:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by villalobas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your wife monopolizes your time because you work a lot of hours, especially on weekends. Why aren't you making time for your wife? You have time to chat with another woman and to see her when she visits, but not time for your wife? In my opinion you sound like the problem, not your wife. Of course your wife is going to be unhappy if you are absent in the marriage. I doubt that she just isn't wanting you to see your daughter, but feeling resentful because you want to make time for the daughter but don't have time for your wife. Instead of looking for relationships online and cheating on your wife you should try to work on your marriage. You cared enough to marry her. If you put some effort into making things work, maybe you woud both be happy. Don't bring someone else into the situation. I have been in a situation similar to yours. I left my husband of 9 years for another man. Afterwards, I realized that I was a big part of the problem. He wasn't perfect but with a little effort our marriage could have worked. Don't make the mistake of not trying to make your marriage work. More than likely you will not listen to people telling you to work things out with your wife, but unless you plan to stay single the rest of your life, relationships require alot of effort to make them work and you will continue to have the same problems. WORK THINGS OUT WITH YOUR WIFE!
2007-03-14 07:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by wmfann844 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with your wife if she will have your cheating butt. Other wise the woman you claim so perfect will hurt you see she is 14 years your junior. She will some day get tied of your wrinkly balls and leave you for a man 14 years your jounior...in my opinion you almost deserve it. I don't care where you come from scum is scum and hunny your scum. Go dropping your wife of ten years like a bad habbit for some hot little fling. shame on you
2007-03-14 07:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by savannah_smiles25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely hysterical listening to you talk about how loyal and loving foreign women are, while CHEATING on your second wife of 10 years. What a classy guy.
2007-03-14 06:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET AWAY QUICK! STAY WITH YOUR MARRIAGE! Trust me you'll be way happier. If you weren't happy with who you're with...then you wouldn't have married them. Younger girls will come and go. They're not interested in a serious relationship with an older guy usually.
2007-03-14 06:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart. If you are not happy in your marriage, instead of cheating, end it and be with who makes you happy.
2007-03-14 06:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are smart you will run from it and stay with your wife.
2007-03-14 06:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by Buck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋