2007-03-14 06:06:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just a curious question...
2007-03-14 06:45:32 · update #1
i would have said... damn! whew! i thought you were going to say yes... you ****** scared the **** outta me!... i just wanted to try how that sh!t feels like.... very intense! so... how about them Lakers?... LoL
2007-03-14 06:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reason.
If it was, "No, we are not in a place (financially, logistically, etc) where marriage is possible, but when we are, then you are the person I want to be with.", I might be able to live with that.
If it was, "Listen, I like you a lot, but we've only been together three weeks. Let's slow down a little.", I could probably live with that, too.
However, if she could not have come up with a decent reason, I would assume that she wasn't interested and would have to seriously consider my other options.
2007-03-14 13:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said no twice, and yet he still asked a third time. That time, I said yes. We knew we wanted to be together, I just didn't think marraige was necessary. I realized finally, that he felt very serious about the whole process and it would make him feel more accomplished in our relationship, so I accepted. I'm glad I did. I think when I said no, the first time, he was confused...the second time, it crushed him, if I had said no the third, I think he would have left me.
2007-03-14 13:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who wouldnt have taken this hard? I mean if you love someone enough to propose it will hurt alot, and if it doesnt you dont have a heart. I am not married, but I know how it would feel.
2007-03-14 21:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by bolinger81380 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out why there is a no. Has something happened recently? Does she not want too because of being afraid? There is more to this question there has to be a reason.
2007-03-14 13:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if my hubby had said no when I proposed, we wouldn't be married now.
I would've been very hurt, and would've tried to understand, but it probably would've ended the relationship.
2007-03-14 13:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may seem harsh to some but I would have ended the relationship immediately and moved on.
2007-03-14 13:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have asked them why and then cried but not gotten angry just cried and then i would ask them to take me home and i would not talk to them for a few days cus i would be crushed and probably needed some space but I'm a girl and dont plan on asking my guy
2007-03-14 13:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first attempt brought forth laughter and an are you kidding response. I thought so too, upon further review. So I didn't do it again. It was amusing though.
2007-03-14 13:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess that's why a couple should somewhat talk about marriage and the guy get a feel if his partner is interested in marrying him
2007-03-14 13:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by 21questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, in our case, we discussed it and agreed to get married. It wasn't like on my knee putting ring on finger thing.
2007-03-14 13:10:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋