That you got an ex.gf pregnant 4 yrs ago while you were having a fling after your break up and now have a son.Would you rather here this from your mother, the ex.gf, or an old highschool buddy who is married to your ex.gf but they are on the verge of divorce?
2007-03-14 06:03:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who cares who you HEAR it from. You have a child to get to know and support that is the important thing......
2007-03-14 06:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be better if you told the guy rather then your wife that way if the guy turns into a butt head about it you could knock him on his butt
Why divorce her that happened before you . I know that its a shocker to fined out this late in the marriage who the real father is but you knew she had a kid before you married her and you had to have known it was from some guy whats the difference if it was from a Friend or not .
Now I'm sitting here wondering if i would even tell the guy and why your wife didn't tell him years ago is he that much of a butt head that she was afraid to tell him .
I think the real thing you 2 should really be looking at is the child if you love him .Maybe go home together and forget about the old Friend you owe him nothing . Whats more important to you now your family or your Friend
2007-03-14 06:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is why 4 years later? Should have told him up front if you wanted him to know. If you didnt want him to know, shouldnt have told anyone.
2007-03-14 06:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to hear it from the judge who read the paternity test to prove that you fathered a child!!! Other than that I guess I would want to hear it from my mom.
2007-03-14 06:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mother so I could get some trusted advise.
2007-03-14 06:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Israel-1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ex girl even tho u dont wann hear it
2007-03-14 06:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give a s h i t either way... it's her problem not mine...
2007-03-14 06:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by jeep_man129 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋