2007-03-14 05:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Who is starting these fihgts with you? People at school? At home? If they are kids or people around you find a teacher or counselor to talk to about getting this resolved. Are you saying anything offensive? or maybe saying things to other people that get around? My advice is don't gossip and if they are picking on you for no reason you need to find an older figure of authority who can get you help with this situation.
2007-03-14 05:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is a lot simpler than you might have imagined.
First of all, try remembering 2 or 3 recent fights you have been involved in. Try to remember each every detail......like what exactly did you say/do and what did the other guy say/do.....and also try to analyse the reasons for getting into it.
Be honest in doing this.
Once you do this , you should be able to know what to do.....infact once you analyze a situation dispassionately your mind already knows what the solution to the problem is...
try doing the right thngs , although there will always be temptation to do the 'wrong' things.
All the best!
2007-03-14 05:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I would tell my 14yr old son. In this day in age you need to learn to walk away. There is so much at risk with fighting. Most importantly your future. At your age these things are held against you when you want to go to college. Fighting is not the awnser things always get out of hand and you can be seriously hurt or the other way around and there wont be any turning back. Now you have that choice choose it carefully. best of luck..
2007-03-14 17:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by PAUL P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Everyone has different reasons, experiences and solutions to that. When someone comes at you not law or Bible say you have to run. But adults put kids that fight in the wrong even if they don't know what happened. Walking away when they are in our faces is really hard, but it will show those who matter who's the mature one. It sounds to me like you've already shown your not a coward. If you don't teach yourself how to walk away you will really hurt someone one day. And I know how that can make life bad fast. good luck.
2007-03-14 05:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by canadaguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk with your parents and your school counselor...even though you say you're not doing anything, there is obviously SOMETHING otherwise you wouldn't be getting in fights.
2007-03-14 06:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Yoyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. talk to the principle, mom, dad, anyone who can get you out of a fight: cops!!
2007-03-14 05:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by jv637 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from people that are not your friends. Stay home more. Don't mouth off to people.
2007-03-14 05:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just dont act on anything. unless they hit you first. but try to avoid situations where people pick on you.
2007-03-14 05:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by calvinkleincalvin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋