The main problem in life between partners,between brothers,sisters,in office between collegues,officers and etc are spoiling the happiness and rytham of life:
Why people cannot think it,understand it and avoid this?
2007-03-14 05:30:05 · 7 answers · asked by ar.samy 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
we understand it but we can not overcome it very easily. It takes a lot of will power to overcome ego and we have to practise for that state of mind and pray to God to give us the will power to overcome ego.
if you are indian then you would know that we have to overcome kaam, krodh, lobh, moh, ahankar(ego).
And to overcome these five sins we should have enough will power and that comes with practise and meditation.
Its an ongoing process and we have to practise it our whole life.
2007-03-14 06:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cultivate humility, you can subdue the Ego to a great extent. First of all 'Do not be perturbed by what others say or think about you. Do every thing without expecting anything in return. This is one of the main teaching of Bagawat Gita. Do your duty selflessly. Love all in spite of their behaviour. Basically all are good only. Time and circumstances alter their nature or behaviour. Help ever, but Hurt never. Love all and serve all. You can remain peaceful. If you start helping the have nots in any manner, your mind will be purified in course of time and the ego will not bother you. Read good books. i.e., history of saints, philosophical books etc. you will get peace of mind. nagarajan.
2007-03-16 03:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by nagarajan s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love someone... you dont bring your ego between... sometimes self respect grow above a limit should be checked as it takes the shape of ego.. nxt time r ego comes between yr close one's just think that you love them so much, you want to see them successfull that small isues can be avoided... think they have the right to take you for granted as they such a place in yr life...
for those who don fall in this category... ego is fine
2007-03-14 12:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by karishma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geeta says.......... do your duty ... and do not claim your right
When a person takes pride in his work
or
when he expects some thing in return for it
the ego in a person is born without the person being aware of it.
best thing is .......... not to have nay expectations ..............
and not to have any emotional involvement in it.
But right from God to man,
if anyone says he doesn't have ego,
then he is the biggest liar.
.
2007-03-14 13:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by surez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EGO IS TAKIN in 2 ways dat is selfesteem n other is superiorism. havin self esteem is not at all wrong, bt supressing others is bad sumetimes v should forget our ego for our relationships sometime!
2007-03-14 12:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by sakshi g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We must need a large heart to be really happy for others.
2007-03-14 13:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inborn arrogance.
2007-03-14 12:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋