2007-03-14 05:02:27 · 11 answers · asked by linda s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe, it is because you are not married and you aren't in love with this person. You are having sex because you think you have to. My advice, stop having sex and save it for the one you love.
Sometimes, there is a physical issue involved. It might also be a good time to see a doctor to find out if there is something physically that needs to be taken care of.
2007-03-14 05:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A doctor may be able to answer your question more than anyone here actually, so I sugest you visit one. For the mean time I believe it is due to lack of foreplay and lubrication. Always consider foreplay in prior to engaging into the intercourse. No tough sport team can play a match without warming up first, right? It is the same. A lot of for play, lube, and gentleness. Every thing will be fine then.
2007-03-14 12:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by RareBird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be a medical problem such as vaginasmus.
Please go and see a doctor, it could be a lack of lubrication but I would have thought that in three years you would have thought of that.
Ask a professional. Its not uncommon and shouldnt be embarrasing to talk about either.
Hope this helps
2007-03-14 12:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by salsabrunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't hurt after 3 years. Perhaps you are not getting properly aroused and lubricated. If you don't produce enough lubrication try using a product like KY jelly or other water based lubricant.
2007-03-14 12:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have a natural lack of lubrication in your vagina - some women just have that, no matter how aroused.
Try some lubrication-creme, it might help the problem.
2007-03-14 12:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Chevrolet*Blazer*Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not getting "wet" enough...so probably are not turned on by the guy you're sleeping with...try to fall in love with someone and then have sex
2007-03-14 12:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing it the normal way? Nothing in the backdoor or anything?
Lube........
If not get it checked out,
2007-03-14 12:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by k9mpgsd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your doctor, thats not right.
2007-03-14 12:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by mrs.new_major_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hung like a horse? : )
2007-03-14 12:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KY lubricant
2007-03-15 11:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by ButterFlyAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋