i sit all day in my house playing games or whatching tv. i know i should try and go out with my mates but i feel like the mates that i had are just leaving and they dont care, they just go off with other mates that are cooler than me,Pls help.
2007-03-14 04:57:14 · 24 answers · asked by cvdb007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm sure your a really cool person. I'm sure that your buddies just go off with other people because they dont want to sit in the house all day and watch tv or play games. They want to do something more interesting. I"m not saying tv or playing games arent interesting because i do watch alot of tv but there is more to life than staying cooped up in a house. turn the tv off for a little while and go outside. find something to do. take up a hobbie like fishing or playing a sport with them. Your sure to find that there is more than just watching tv and playing video games and i'm sure your buddies will have alot of fun hanging out with there best friend again. they will find once the tv is turned off that your a really cool guy and you too like to have fun. Go enjoy life. You only have one life to live dont waste it on watching tv and staying cooped up in the house. Have fun.
2007-03-14 05:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to tell you that I totally understand you and I know what you've been through! Well if you don't think that you are important for them try to go out with someone else. The best thing to do is making little surpises to yourself by doing something new. Go out with other people , go in a new club , do anything you want to get out of the routine. It's an wafull place and when your mates don't support you it's even worse. I always find it helpful when I'm trying to change what I don't like. It's not the easiest thing but try it because it worths it and because life is too small , so live yours..
2007-03-14 12:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look there is no reason that you should wanna give up on life. just because your mates tend to ignore you sometimes there are other things to do like find some new mates to kick it with. don't just sit in the house and do nothing you have to get out there and socialize with people because your not going to meet people. Go out to the club or go to the movies. do something man.
2007-03-14 12:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by vanillaswril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find friends that have the same hobbies as you. You need to get out of the house more and meet new people. Find a new hobby and you can meet new people that way also. I have a diverse group of friends and if one is doing something I don't like then I see what my other friends are doing. Chin up and have an open mind. It will be O.K. Don't give up that is the worst thing you can do. Also you might want to talk with someone it sounds like you may have depression.
2007-03-14 12:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Grace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you he like this about ur friends then i think its time to find some new ones i went threough the same thing a couple of years ago but now i have the best friends and a really great guy. life is worth livin when you have great people to live it with and if the pepole you got now dont respect u enough to even hangout with u ditch them amd find some new pepole.
I wish you tons of luck.
p.s.back away from the tv and video games
pleas!!!!!!
2007-03-14 12:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go out with your mates, for they are not mates. Learn to be happy with yourself first. Have you ever taken a walk on you own? have you ever enjoyed the outside air just because you wanted to? Find something you like first... go to the library... go help a neighbour once a week.. anything to get started. those mates are not worth your attention.
Please, try be happy with yourself first, because that will help you most! :)
2007-03-14 12:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mates didn'tcome into this world with you and really
aren't a requirement to enjoy what life has to offer. There's
hobbies, activities, for solitary enjoyment, and there are
other people than your mates that are fun to be around. Open
those baby blues, big brown or whatever eyes, get out in
this world and enjoy enjoy enjoy.
2007-03-14 12:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby, preferably one that will put you around people. I personally like paintball. Try something that peaks your interest, but never really thought you would do. I personally want to try scuba diving, hang gliding, sky diving, and other things like that. Perhaps you can start a project like making a go kart. There is plenty to do in life. As long as you keep your mind occupied, you should be good to go.
2007-03-14 12:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by shootdraxxus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy drop them and make new friends. If you feel your a good friend and someone isn't being the same way toward you. All you have to do is take it for what it is and move on. Giving up as you say. No no way don't do that. What you said about your friends it happened to my daughter now she has a very good friend. So you see it worked out for her and it will for you.
2007-03-14 12:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by BarbaraJean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweetheart...it's okay...people will come and go out of your life for years to come and the best advice that i can give to you is to go to any place nearby you that has lots of people your age there and find some new friends and then when the ones that are blowing you off now see that you have met some other people then they will want to be aroud you more but if they are leaving you out now you would be better off finding some new friends.....there are so many people around you that need friends and they are better then the ones you hang out with now.....best of luck to you and keep your chin up sweetheart!
2007-03-14 12:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sam Fisher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋